Text/Uncle Bei Anchor/Ruchu
Source/Uncle Beiyou Date (ID: beishu2016)
The life of a person is destined to be a bumpy journey. It is inevitable that there will be troughs and peaks on the way, and there will be frustration and pride.
During this period, we need to be calm, calm, and turn corners.
Only in this way can we cultivate a good mood and cultivate a big pattern, so that we can understand the true meaning of life and go further.

calm down
"Static Energy" reads:
"Calm down to see who you are."
_blockquote21 blockquote24span TV series After the broadcast, various new and old works by Mr. Qian Zhongshu were immediately introduced to the market.
Faced with this kind of popularity, Qian Zhongshu has always remained silent.
To the so-called "money study fever", he thinks it is "puffing more than researching". Because of puffing, characters can become an obnoxious thing.
A TV station paid a lot of money to invite him to accept the interview, and he humorously declined:
"I have been surnamed for a lifetime of money, am I still superstitious about money?"
He delved into academic research, and after "Being Besieged", he created famous essays such as " 谈艺录", " written on the edge of life" and "Huaiju Poems".
A person can recognize himself only if he is calm.
knows what he is facing,What you should do will have your own thinking power and see the truth of life.
Static is a silent and powerful force.
" Commandment Book" records:
"The journey of a husband and a gentleman, quiet to cultivate oneself."
means a quiet person who speaks both virtue and ability, and is a person who relies on inner energy. Cultivate the body and mind.
A calm heart leads to clearness, and a clear heart leads to clearness.
Stay quiet and listen to your heart, so you can live a better version of yourself.
Enter the world with a calm heart, calmly and calmly; with an elegant posture, confident and abundant, and calmly live the world.
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Calm down
Throughout the ages, all people who accomplish great things have superhuman willpower.
When encountering hardships or being in desperate situations, they can hold their hearts, calm down, and seize the opportunity to turn things around.
At the end of the Spring and Autumn Period, during the Battle of Kuaiji, Wu Guo defeated Yue Guo . After the defeat, the Yue King Goujian pretended to surrender and was willing to go to Wu as a slave.
Goujian The couple do all kinds of chores in the country of Wu. They are called by people and carefully serve the Wu Wang Fucha . Every time the Fucha rides a horse, he does not use stirrups, but instead rides on Goujian's shoulders.
Gou Jian accepts it on the surface, but bears the burden of humiliation in his heart.
Just like that, two years have passed.Fucha thought that Goujian had sincerely surrendered to him, so he let Goujian go back to China.
After Gou Jian returned to China, he moved to the capital and rebuilt the political system. The people of Vietnam became strong and the country was flourishing.
In 482 BC, the Yue Kingdom destroyed Wu, two years later Goujian became the overlord.
People with a far-reaching pattern can calm down and continue to plump their wings; they know not to complain and not to worry, step by step to pave the yearning for the future.
This is a kind of vision, a kind of pursuit, but also a kind of endurance.
I can hold my breath, and become a great weapon.
In this life, there will be both abundant years and famine years, and ups and downs and pressures are inevitable.
Really powerful people know how to wait for the right time and accumulate wealth.
As Master Xingyun said:
"During the waiting days, read hard, be humble, cultivate deep roots, and the future will flourish."
The same is true in life, and finally broke out. People fight for endurance.
Only if you can hold your breath, can you open up infinite possibilities for the future.
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turned a corner
There is such a story.
A farmer lives at the foot of a mountain. She herds sheep and grows vegetables for a living. He often goes to the market to sell goat milk, vegetables and fruits.
There are two roads to the market.
A short road leads directly to the market, but halfway there is a boulder that is impassable; the other road takes several hours to reach the market, and it is easy to miss the morning market peak.
The farmer is determined to remove the boulder,So he took his son to act together.
Three months later, they only removed the tip of the boulder iceberg.
Once, when his son was tired from work, he suddenly shouted:
"Why do we have to remove this stone? If we move to the other side of the stone, a new house can be built in 3 months. It is much simpler than chiseling stones day and night."
After listening to this, the farmer suddenly realized.
Soon, the farmer's family moved to a place close to the market, and since then they have lived a rich and convenient life.
The boulder in the way cannot be easily removed. The best way is to bypass it.
The same is true in life. If you encounter a road that is not accessible, you may wish to adjust your direction and turn in time. Maybe you will encounter a better scenery.
Cartoonist Zheng Xinyao once said:
"Sometimes you feel that the road is not going. It does not mean that you have reached the end of the road, but it reminds us that it is time to turn."
The stubbornness of not looking back at the wall is not an advantage, but turning in the corner is great wisdom.
The mountain does not turn, the road turns; the road does not turn, the person turns; the person does not turn, the heart turns.
Life is long, we not only need the courage to move forward, but also the wisdom to turn.
What determines the height of our lives is never the starting point, but the turning point.
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For the rest of our lives, I hope we learn to behave calmly and judge the situation.
Birds are not surprised when they pass through the floating clouds, the sand is sinking and the water is still clear.
Let him have many obstacles,I made a detour on my own.
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