Source: A book per night (ID: yitiaobao) Author: Miao Miao Host: Lu Renjia Editor: Jiang Ziyi (internship) The article has been reprinted with authorization, please reprint Contact the original account for authorization
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Some people say, "I don't know what a gentleman is, but everything is willing to lose; I don't know what a villain is, but everything is good for the advantage." The reaction of a person when he suffers will reveal his self-cultivation.
When we talked about this topic, our colleague Yun Xiang praised her ex-husband very generously.
Three years ago, Yunxiang broke up with her husband and ended her marriage for more than ten years. At that time, she could tell a lot of her husband's problems, love is gone, hate is more than enough. At the time of the divorce, because she was worried that her husband would compare the baht, she deliberately consulted a lawyer friend in advance, fearing that she would suffer. What she didn't expect was that her husband graciously gave her more fortune.
Husband said that he is a big man in his thirties who can fight and fight, but Yunxiang wants to live with his children, and he must stumble in the workplace. He doesn't want to care about these things. If the child's mother suffers, the child must also suffer.
So on the day of the divorce, they did not make a lot of noise, but got together and dispersed. Later, Yunxiang always felt guilty because she thought of her husband so badly. Whenever the children asked why they were divorced, she would say good things for her husband. So the children still trusted them, and the divorce did not cause too much harm to the children in the end.
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Five months ago, my college roommate Linlin got married and sent an invitation to both me and Mao Mao. We took two days off and rushed to Linlin's hometown to attend her wedding, each of which also accompanied us with 500 yuan of money.
A few days ago, Mao Mao got married and invited Linlin.But Linlin said that she was too busy at work and was not free, so she sent a red envelope of 100 yuan to Mao Mao on WeChat. For a while, Linlin's past stories of taking advantage of her in college came to my mind, and I complained to Mao Mao unhappily.
Mao Mao said: "Look at you, I'm not angry, why are you angry? It's not worth getting upset about this little thing." Then I understood Mao Mao's philosophy of dealing with things: life is its own, if It is too tired and too narrow to always calculate on the small things.
Benefit is a mirror through which you can see a person's inner world. The person who takes advantage of everything will never know that he has lost much more than he has gained.
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There is a breakfast shop near our company that has been in business for nearly 20 years. Although its taste is not the most delicious, but the portion is the most abundant, unlike some breakfast shops that increase prices every year. Pick and pick on the ingredients.
We often joked with the boss, "You sell at this price, and sooner or later we will eat poorly." The boss just smiled and said, "It's not that I made big steamed buns, but you ate too little." The boss is very kind. He never thought that he had suffered a loss, so he made a profit for more than ten years.
Facts have proved that generous people never lose popularity, and stingy people will inevitably lose friends.
In fact, many times, people who are willing to suffer a loss do not really like to suffer a loss, nor do they compromise, endure humiliation, and swollen faces to fill up fat people, but they do not take the immediate gains and losses in mind, and are willing to give up a little bit of personal gain and make each other better. .
In interpersonal communication, a person's attitude when facing a disadvantage can best see his character. Smart people know how to make profit, generous people know how to be polite, kind people will pass by with a smile, and gentle people can keep their hearts calm.
If a person is worthy of deep friendship, you can see if he suffers a loss once.
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