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My name is Lu Lanhong, from Qiannan, Guizhou, and I am 43 years old this year. When I was 19, I married my 30-year-old boyfriend. From 1994 to 2013, I gave birth to 15 children for my husband in the past 20 years. I have never regretted it. The eldest is 27 years old this year and should start a family, and the youngest is only 7 years old.
I have a primary school education and no education. After meeting my husband, my life is a bit tight, but I am still happy. Because of having too many children, I have also become a celebrity from far and near, the town and county all know. Every time I go to the streets with dolls, like a monkey king, I attract many curious people. Even if you look at the whole county, it is unlikely that anyone will be born year after year. A lot of people sarcastically said that you gave birth to hairy children and you are the monkey king.
Some time ago, I read the headlines and found that a 28-year-old girl from Guizhou married her 40-year-old boyfriend, and there are 6 children left. In fact, I was surprised to see that at first, who would dare to give birth to so many in this age. I don't know why she gave birth to so many, but the reason for my birth is very complicated, accidental and deliberate, stumbled 21 years, I sometimes feel tired.
We got married very early in our hometown. My hairies were married at sixteen or seventeen. I was married very late at the age of 19.
The road of love between me and him, from Guizhou to Guangxi
I am a rural person. When I was young, my family was very poor. I have 6 brothers and sisters. The boss died in a car accident a few years ago, leaving 5 of our sisters. My father fell ill and died when I was very young, and the whole family counted on my mother. Rural people, in the mountains, there is no way to make money, and there are no days for the last meal.
Since I was young, I have hardly worn socks. I remember a pair of shoes that I have worn for 8 years. The rotten ones are full of holes and can’t be thrown away! What I eat the most is wild vegetables. We can hardly eat rice. There is not enough food produced in many places in the family.
has no academic qualifications,There is no way out, just wandering around the village all day. I don't like to get together to chat with people, people can't talk about it in those days. There is a saying: good things do not go out, bad things spread for thousands of miles. Because his father passed away early, he became a joke of tuberculosis in the village, and often mocked the few of us who had fathers and no one to raise them. Good this time because of this incident, I fought against the village people's congress. The family is too strong to beat it.
By 1990, when I was just 15 years old, I was fed up with the cynicism of the villagers and fed up with the life at that time. I want to escape, leave this ghost place, never want to come back.
In 1991, I worked as a part-time worker in a factory in the province, producing popsicles. I worked 12 hours a day and only earned 20 yuan a month, barely enough to make a living. Later, the workers said that the wages at the construction site were high and they still care about food, but I was a girl, so I went to ask the owner of the construction site to take me in in every possible way. At that time, someone was about to give birth, and then I was left behind.
I cook for people every day. It's much more comfortable than when I go to work on the premises. I can eat whatever I want. has never eaten cucumbers since I was young. When I first met, I ate 6 cucumbers in one breath. Maybe I'm young and beautiful. The men on the construction site often talk to me and make jokes. I naively thought it was kindness.
One night, I was asleep and suddenly felt cool on the top of my head. I woke up suddenly and found that the site boss was arrogant to me, touched my thigh, and said some messy nonsense, I was so frightened that I cried. Maybe the cry was too loud, and everyone lived close to the construction site, and the boss ran away because of an accident.
After a while, a man in his 40s, , scumbag rushed into my room, I held this man and cried out of my inner fear and anxiety , and told what had happened he. The next day he went to the boss to argue, was beaten up, and lost his job. This warm story makes me unforgettable for a lifetime.
For the first time, he let me experience what fatherly love is, and for the first time he let me experience the feeling of being protected. I also lost my job because of this,Maybe he thinks I am more pitiful, so he wants to take me in. Later, I returned to Guangxi with him.
When two people get along for a long time, they have feelings. At first, they are grateful. Because of his care and care for a long time, the feelings between us gradually became a little different. I started to pursue him. In 1993, he was 48 years old and I was 18 years old. The difference between the two is 30 years old. Before he was 48, he had never been married, and no one wanted to marry him. At first, because of my age, I disagreed, but I got it after a long time.
Due to the age difference, it is inevitable that there are some gossips in the village. Some people say that I was abducted by him, some people say that I was cheated, and some people say that he was an old cow who ate tender grass... After so many years, I have also listened a lot, got used to it, and looked down on it...
After 21 years of marriage, I gave birth to 15 babies for him, but I don’t regret it. When he is over 60 years old, I will definitely not be able to bear the hard times, and the family is poor. But after a long time, not only did we have no divorce, but 15 children were left. Although we did not give the children a happy life, our family is still warm and I have never regretted it.
In 1994, we were officially married and we became pregnant that year. She gave birth to her first child in the following year. She was a girl, but she had a strong rural concept, feudal thinking, and wanted a son who would inherit the lineage.
I gave birth to three children in a row and I was still a girl. At first, I didn't want to give birth, but after an unexpected pregnancy, in 1999, we had our first boy. The whole family was very happy and specially celebrated it.
It’s just that what happened later was purely an accident. Every time it was an accidental pregnancy, the two families slowly developed from two to 10 or so, and they became the big “big family” in the village.
2016,We gave birth to our 15th child. We were really tired, and we didn't dare to have another child.
Because there are more births, many reporters have also interviewed and asked why safety measures are not taken. In fact, there is no money for pregnancy prevention measures. Even my child was born and never went to the hospital. It was done by a nearby "midwife".
Later, the town government came to persuade us to stop. After giving birth in 2016, I felt tired all over, which I didn't have before. I feel that it is the root of the disease left by children born for so many years. When I gave birth, I cut the umbilical cord with unsterilized scissors, and the baby's belly button was just wiped with tea oil.
accidentally became a celebrity because of the many births
After my family's affairs were reported in the news, many people gave their husbands the nickname "the first macho", and some people paid special visits to ask What is the secret to having a baby? I wake up with laughter several times at night.
The town government learned about my family's situation and provided us with the minimum guarantee and poor households, and can receive more than 2,000 yuan in relief each month. Although money is not too much for our family, it has greatly improved the living conditions of the family.
The child’s schooling was also contracted by the government, and the child was run as a poor student, which helped a lot of children in life.
Our story has been known to more and more people in the past few years. Many people donate money to my family. Our local big Internet celebrity "three sisters" often come to my house and give a lot. For food, clothes, and many northerners came to my house to shoot videos, make jokes, and donate money. For a while, our house was very lively. It has become a place for "net celebrities" to check in.
I once did a rough calculation. Donations can make six or seven thousand in a month. Now the live broadcast is launched. Many kind people give us rewards and earn 10,000 yuan a month. This For the originally struggling family, it is a help in the snow,The living standard of our family has also been greatly improved.
Thank you for the support of the government and netizens. Now I am over 40 and I dare not regenerate anymore. I don’t know what the future will be like, but I don’t regret anything.. .....
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