"Eat men and women, people have great desires." When people come to this world, they have seven emotions and six desires. With the development of the times, sex education for young people has become an indispensable lesson.
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Recently, there was a news report that a 13-year-old girl chatted with a netizen on the Internet, and the two actually fell in love and ran out.
And the uncle was 43 years old. After learning that the little girl was a student, he lied about his age, claiming that he was 19 years old and pretending to be a college student.
I don't know if it was because of a longing for college life, or was too naive. One night, the little girl actually went to meet netizens alone.
can be imagined, how things will develop in the future.
That night, after the uncle asked the little girl out, he had sex with the girl in the car.
This old man is just a liar who deceives children under the banner of love.
This incident was discovered by the girl's parents, and they quickly reported the incident.
However, although the man pleaded guilty, he said that he and the girl were boyfriend and girlfriend, and did not use violence to force the girl, and did not cause any harm to her body, so he requested a light sentence.
In our country's law, a young girl under the age of 14, regardless of the other party's willingness, as long as they know and have sex with the other party, will constitute the crime of rape.
This uncle is already the father of three children, but now he is trying to kidnap him with affection. It is really absurd to say that he and the 13-year-old girl are boy and girl friends.
Waiting for him will be legal sanctions.
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The 13-year-old girl has not yet formed her own values. She is curious about many things in this world, and she is not aware of the impact of such harm on her.
Some netizens said, "What's the matter with ?" At 13 years old, can't you tell the approximate age of the other party?
In fact, even if a little girl knows the age of the other person, but if she lacks a correct knowledge of sexual knowledge, she will not be aware of the harm it will do to her.
The novel " Fang Siqi's first love paradise " tells the story of a teacher deceiving students, but this is a true story that happened to the author.
"He said this is the way to like me, so I must fall in love with him in order to alleviate the pain in my heart."
This sentence is ironic.
Obviously hurt, but can only use self-deception to cover the inner wound.
Because she only asked her mother from the side, she was accused of shamelessness by her mother.
confided her heart to her friend, but was cut off by her friend, saying that she was too dirty.
No one told her what to do, everyone thought it was her fault.
Girls talking about sex, asking about sex, seems to be a shameful thing.
In the TV series " Xiaohuanxi ", Fang Yifan and Qiao Yingzi , who are both high school students, had an understanding hug one day, but they were accidentally seen by both mothers. After
Fang Yifan's mother forced Fang Yuan'er to popularize sex education for her son.
But Fang Yuan, as his father, said: "Don’t have sex education classes in junior high school? He is so old.I can't open this mouth. "
As a male parent, he is still silent about his son’s sex education. It is conceivable that the sex education of girls has made parents even more talkative.
But this is a parent He still managed to communicate with his children.
But Fangyuan did not expect his son to have a clear understanding of all this.
Fangyuan told his son: " If you have a girlfriend in college, then You must obtain the consent of the other party in everything you do, including having sex, and you must take protective measures, otherwise the woman will become pregnant. It will cause greater trauma to both parties, especially girls. After
Fangyuan asked Fang Yifan: "Do you know how to take protective measures?" "
Fang Yifan said to bring a condom!
When the boy in high school did not cover up the matter of wearing a condom, but said it directly, we knew that the boy was very much In fact, we have a clear understanding of this matter.
We can also see that in the TV series there is no disclosure of the girl, how parents communicate with her about this matter.
because It’s really ashamed to let girls talk about it, But the more you do this, the more parents should pay attention to communicating with girls.
The author of that novel chose to leave this world and end his life. Avoid everything.
A girl’s in the Mood for Love has just fallen.
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In fact, sex education classes have already begun as early as childhood, and there will be special classes in school.
Because we all know that you think your child is still young,It's not suitable to talk about this, but those with special hobbies, they never feel that your child is small and shouldn't be hurt.
There are also many picture books, which are aimed at children's sex education, and bigger, there are also special sex education books aimed at students.
Parents should buy these books in a frank manner and let their children know about them.
If you have the conditions, you can also go to the science and technology museum to let children learn more about the structure of the human body and the reproduction of human beings.
Of course, the best way is to communicate between parents and children.
In this matter, it is best to communicate between father and son, mother and daughter, to avoid embarrassment for girls.
As a parent in chatting, you must calm your mind and not force your child to do anything in a high-profile manner.
To let children know how to protect themselves, especially boys, they should also be told to learn to protect girls.
Sex education is not only sex physiology education, but also personality growth education.
hopes that every family will do this well to avoid unnecessary harm.
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