Cui Lishan
Fighting tiger brothers, fighting father and son soldiers, this old saying tells us a truth: family affection is very important and extremely precious.
However, family relationships need to be kept fresh, and freshness needs to be managed. It is not just because they are parents, children must be grateful. It is not just because they are children, that parents absolutely love them. It's not just because they are brothers and sisters, they get along 100% in harmony.
If the father is not kind, the son is not filial; if the brother is not friendly, the younger brother is disrespectful. Love flows in both directions, and only giving love without return will not last long.
The grass is eager to take care of it, and the tree is also looking forward to it. Similarly, people with difficult lives wait for help, and those with good food and clothing can't get everything right.
Unfortunately, it is easy for the strong to pull the weak, and it is difficult for the weak to give a little love to the strong. From the perspective of the weak, the strong live in heaven, carefree, worry-free, and trouble-free.
In fact, every family has unspeakable sutras, and everyone has unspeakable suffering.
In real life, watching the deep family affection drift away and fade away.
Grandson works in Beijing, and grandpa settles in Hainan. Long time no see, Grandpa asked his grandson: "How is the job?" Grandpa said: "It's okay."
Grandpa asked: "Did you talk about your partner?"
"Talked." Grandson replied.
Grandpa asks a question, grandson answers. What to ask and what to answer. As for grandpa's health, grandson doesn't care. Grandpa's joys, sorrows, sorrows, and joy, grandson will not consider.
Besides, every time Grandpa takes the initiative to chat with his grandson.
My sister developed in Australia, and my sister worked hard in China. My sister is the boss of the company and my sister is the school gardener. The mountains are high and the water is far away, and the two sisters can only communicate screen-to-screen.
Sister asked: "Are you still living in the same place?"
"Yes." My sister said.
Sister continued to ask: "Is my daughter admitted to university?"
"I was admitted."My sister replied.
Sister does not ask, and her sister does not say anything.
Sister misses her sister, and her sister does not care about her sister.
Sister thinks that my sister has a lot of money, and she doesn't need to ask her about it. She doesn't know. My sister is unaccompanied abroad. In order to survive and dignity, she has suffered countless grievances and encountered resistance beyond imagination. Sweating, tears and bleeding are commonplace.
I hold a fiery heart Come, but you let me go away with scars all over my body.
Many family affections, just like this, little by little.
August 17, 2021
Cui Lishan, works in Datong University, professional English Teacher. Although he is not young, he is passionate; although he has no power and power, he has the ambition to benefit the society.
Once, I used 6 months of crazy spirit to learn English for middle and high school, and the college entrance examination score was the first in the county.
firmly believes To learn English, you need to be anxious and calm; you need to speak, and you need to write by hand; you need to recite, and you need to imitate; you need to practice, and you need to use it (Use it or lose it); you need to learn it yourself, and you need to teach others to learn it. It’s others who teach, and it’s self that promotes.
Learn English at about 10 years old, and the standard of English is easy; missed the golden period of learning, learning English is too laborious.
is good at writing, both English and Chinese, publishes one article daily, and never stops. Writing Educate and teach, write about preparation for exams; write about teachers and students, write about talent training experience; write about parent-child relationships, and write about family and country.
For parents to share worries, be practical; to relieve students' worries in all aspects. Don't be afraid of parents' strict requirements, just be afraid of them I don’t believe it; I’m not afraid that students have a low starting point. I’m afraid that they have no ambition. Grady, Suhomlinsky and other famous teachers who have transcended the times learn from them, and are unwilling to become teachers who carry knowledge.And to become a master who understands students, reorganizes courses, shapes character, cultivates emotions, and connects the world, so as to lay the foundation for students' comprehensive and individual development.
Believe in seeds, believe in years. Plant the seeds for the days and years; watch the years and wait for the flowers to bloom.
"English Tutor" special writer, "Global Times English Edition" special writer.
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