Foreword: "Love for a long time" happens occasionally in our lives. A mature man has his unique charm, good economic conditions, and good maintenance, which will make many young girls who are just beginning to love heart move. Middle-aged men also yearn for the kind of love they had when they were young, full of freshness and passion. So now many little girls like to find "uncles" to fall in love, and middle-aged men also like to associate with little girls. In fact, this kind of love is very beautiful to outsiders, but only oneself knows whether it is really good or bad. Mr. Feng: I am 48 years old.
When I was in college, I also experienced the kind of love that swears by each other. At that time, I was young and did not understand love, and I thought I had met true love. But we broke up because of my family. After graduating, my family introduced me to a girlfriend. After a few months of marriage, they got married. They didn’t have much affection for each other. Fear, so I have remained single for so many years. Until that day, I met her.
Which girl is my current girlfriend. She is a very gentle girl. The first time I saw her, I thought she was like my first love girlfriend, both in appearance and personality. At that time, she was working as an clerk in my company. I didn't pay much attention to her at first. Later, I found out that she began to approach me intentionally or unintentionally. After working overtime one day, I met her at the door of the company. At that time, it was quite late, and it was not easy to take a taxi, so I said I would take you back, she said a little embarrassedly, thank you boss.
We didn't chat much along the way. After arriving, she looked at me and said, "Boss, I like you, can I pursue you?" After she finished speaking, she ran away, and I sat in the car for a long time without reacting.From that day on, she began to pursue me. It would be a lie to say that she was not interested, but the little girl was only in her twenties. Although I really longed for a woman to love me, I never responded to her because of my age. At a company party, she drank too much, and I dropped her off at a nearby hotel, and we got into a relationship for a while, and we got together after that.
Her sunny and positive personality makes me feel that I am young, and this feeling makes me "can't stop". In fact, it's not that I don't care about other people's opinions. After all, I'm in my 40s and have a girlfriend in my twenties. Because I usually pay attention to maintenance, I don't look like a forty-something person, but every time we go out together, her little sisters always joke: Are you going out to play with your uncle? It's not that I'm vulnerable, But they were like this every time, and then I didn't like going out with her anymore.
Because of this, we always quarrel, she thinks that if I love her, I should accept her friends and have a good relationship with her friends, but I don't think she cares about my feelings at all. Her family always disagreed with us being together. In fact, his parents were about the same age as me, so I didn't even know what to call them when we met. Especially when I attended their family reunion, their relatives always talked about me secretly. Later, no matter the big or small matter, I only paid and didn't participate. There were more and more problems between us because of the age difference, and then she became pregnant.
Our relationship eased up a bit, her parents agreed to our marriage, and we had a big wedding. After marriage, our life was pretty good. After ten months, our child was born. I feel very happy to have a child. I hope we can have such happy afternoons in the days to come.Conclusion: We always feel that distance and age are not a problem for love, but after we really face reality, we will find that the age gap directly affects the relationship between husband and wife. So we have to think about it before we get married, and then make a decision.
