Background: What do boys think of girls who confess to them? How do you think about the behavior of women chasing men?
My thoughts:
I will take my own perspective on this question, and talk about how I would treat this girl if a girl pursued me.
First of all, I think this girl is really super brave, because I am already married, and dare to take this kind of risk to pursue me. It shows that I live free and easy and have courage.
I don’t think she is shameless, knowing that I am married, she came to "seduce" me. This may be my daughter-in-law’s thoughts, but I am not. It is one thing if I accept it. How can I think she is another time? thing.
If this girl is still pursuing me bitterly (feeling good) when I explicitly reject it, at this time I will think that she is a person with obsessions, and people with obsessions are usually not suitable to be Lovers are easy to get into the corner, have a strong desire for control, and may go to extremes.
At this time, I’m going to play and disappear. I won’t reply. I will kill the obsession of the other party. Basically, this girl won’t get a reply or can’t find me for a period of time. The obsession is temporarily put down.
If I am very scumbag and I accept her pursuit, then I will be very tired. I have to take care of both sides, whether I can wear help, and I have to endure the flogging of my moral sense. Basically, I insist on three to five months. It's too tired. I admire those who can persist between two women for several years.
I accept, then this girl has changed from a suitor to a lover role. The lover is always sweet in the early stage, but will be poison in the later stage, and she will not give up if she doesn’t take your skin off. Poison.
If I were a single boy and I met a girl who pursued me, how would I treat her?
To be honest, many boys in China are not ready to be pursued by girls. Normally, they don’t know how to face this situation. It’s not if it is good or bad. There is also the ability to judge. As a result, the girl takes the initiativeI'm all stupid.
After being stupid, there will be two reactions. Either you feel that you are so attractive, and you start to become sullen and willful to the girls who chase you. Either they were at a loss and began to hide behind the girls who chased them, not knowing how to deal with them.
But no matter what the situation is, as long as girls dare to take the initiative, dare to put down their own face, and pursue a boy, basically there is little failure.
In the past, boys chased girls, so boys don’t have much experience in being chased. If they don’t have much experience, they will become easily confused and just accept it. It's like bargaining when you buy clothes. You haven't bargained before, and the seller will cut you twice, and you will accept it. You may go back and ask, if you buy the expensive clothes, you can already buy them. Wear them. At most, pay attention next time.
If you are a boy and there are girls who are chasing you, I suggest you listen to it and see it.
If you are a girl and are pursuing a boy, I suggest you learn to stalk and stalker.
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