You are envied by your mother after you are divorced. It seems that your life after the divorce is very good!
Do you want to divorce your mom and your dad? You can analyze with your mom! Why are you so happy after your divorce.
I think it is nothing more than the following points:
First, financial independence, own job, financial freedom!
You should not depend on your husband financially, and your salary is enough to support your happy life.
Is your mother financially sufficient for the rest of her life? Including money needed for treatment if there is a serious illness in the future. Do you have the ability to make money now?
Second, have their own hobbies and can bear loneliness.
You should have your own hobbies! If you have your own hobbies, you will enrich your life. Will not be sad because the husband ignores himself or divorces him.
When you live alone, if you have few hobbies and are not good at communication, you have to endure loneliness. Can your mother bear this?
People who have been married for many years may not have love between two people, but they have family affection, and they are each other's company!
And most of them are used to the existence of each other. Once divorced, I'm afraid your mother can't stand it!
Third, Mr. Qian Zhongshu said: Marriage is a siege, people outside want to come in, people inside want to go out!
Does your mother want to use aggressive methods to get you into marriage again?
Fourth, if your parents have a bad relationship and your divorce is a fuse, you can divorce your mom and your dad. If not, be careful!
In short, a person's happiness is sometimes not determined by marriage. Divorce is not the solution to all problems, I hope she can think twice!
This is my opinion, I hope it helps you.
I am Youlan smile, please pay attention to me, let us laugh to life together!
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