My baby is just two years old and two months old. It is a little beast. Every day, the family staged a "Breaking Heaven" ~
originally thought that he had survived the running-in period with the baby, and survived the baby’s jaundice, flatulence, eczema, night milk, The baby is just a little older. When the baby was one month old, he thought it would be easy to bring the baby when he was one year old.
realized that it was just the beginning when he was one year old. The baby would walk everywhere and wanted to explore it, and found that it was better when it was a month old.
later comforted myself that the baby walked steadily at the age of two and knew a lot about it. Now it’s two years old, chasing and chasing every day. The baby runs fast on the calf, and can’t catch up at a slower pace. ~
can't be idle at all every day, take this for a while, and fiddle with that for a while, the old mother has to watch it all the time, otherwise she can't figure out what to do. I love to explore everything, my clothes are always dirty.
Many parents think that like me, when they are comfortable with the baby’s eating and drinking, they think that they are out of their heads, but for the two-year-old with unlimited energy, they are often tossed with incompetence ~ distressed myself for two seconds ~
in English There is a word called "terrible two" which translates to a horrible two-year-old. He would still be holding your little angel called mother softly some time ago. Why did he become a headache little devil overnight?
Two-year-old babies are gradually transitioning from early childhood to preschool. At this time, their physical and athletic development gradually slows down, but their intelligence and emotions begin to develop rapidly.
Their vocabulary is gradually enriched, and their self-awareness is gradually forming. Many people call it the child's first rebellious period. Babies at
usually have the following characteristics, and mothers are welcome to sit in with their seats.
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This age of children has just learned to speak. Two years old is the period of language outbreak. Parents will find that the baby is muttering and talking from time to time. Sometimes they like to talk with their mother, sometimes they play with toys and read picture books. Talking non-stop, it's just a trifle.
This is a good thing, which means that children's language ability is improving rapidly. Children at this time of
are much smarter than we thought, and they are very suitable for language learning. The two-year-old baby is very good at language absorption and learning ability.
likes to say no
Two-year-old children are entangled. On the one hand, they want their parents to play with them, and on the other hand, they want their parents to stay away from them.
When you ask him if he wants to help, he resolutely says no. When you really let him play by himself, he pesters you again. In short, he has to do everything against you.
My baby is that, I sometimes interfere with them, they will say "don't don't", and they will hit me with their little hands when they are anxious. I'm scared~
moody
People say baby faces in June. The "baby faces" of children of this age are particularly confusing. They were distraught at the first moment, and then burst into tears the next.
If parents go to comfort them, they will cry even harder. It is clear that they are just thundering and not raining. When the parents come to comfort them, they will immediately be stormy~
self-centered
children at this age like to play with their children more and more. But they did not communicate too much together, usually playing with their own toys in a crowd.
seems to have no connection, but they have gained a lot in the process of playing, so don't limit the normal social interaction of the child.
Strong order
Anything must have a strong order to the time and order of its occurrence.
For example, if his mother opened the door for her mother after returning home, but next time her mother opened the door by herself, they would be very upset and even lose their temper. This is the formation of a child's "order sensitive period".
Love to act like a baby
Children of this age usually "behave like a monster" on their own, but they are easily tired. Sometimes they feel tired soon after going out. They don’t want to walk on their own and don’t like to make strollers. Let mother hold it like a baby.
is like when my baby was more than one year old, he was not stable when he was willing to walk by himself, and now he runsVery slippery, but when I go out, I have to hug, especially when I see my family hugging my sister, I will say that my sister is hugging.
Sometimes when I sit on the sofa, they will run over and crawl into my arms and call mother softly. When I get angry, they will keep calling mom until I respond, and they will please people~ Haha!
Although they are still children themselves, they feel that only by doing something more like a child can they be loved by adults.
have a strong possessive
they will feel that all the toys they have played or plan to play with are their own, and they will firmly protect them from others.
At this time, their catchphrase is often "mine, mine", but other children are usually at this age of possessiveness, so when children are playing together, they can get ridiculous and cause headaches for their parents. Endless.
does not adapt to the requirements of others
As mentioned above, children at this time have a strong possessive desire for their own toys or the toys they have played with, and they have no concept of "sharing" and "take turns".
At this time, adults should do a good job of guiding, rather than compulsively order children.
For example:
baby, let's give the toys to other children to play for a while, OK? Baby
let them play with this toy for a while, shall we play with others?
Don't label your children as "disobedient" or "bad kid" just by relying on your baby not to give toys to others. Give your children the correct guidance so that they can use their immature sharing and social skills.
Several ways to get along with terrible2 babies:
skillfully communicate, give the child multiple choice questions, let them choose one of the two, can be an open answer, to avoid them from continuing to say headaches "no", such as eating You can let your baby choose what he likes to eat.
sets a clear bottom line for the child. Once offended, he will be punished. Note that all members of the family must stand in the same position at this time, otherwise the child will be confused about this matter.
is a little bit suitable for Buddhism. Don’t make too much demands on children. After all, they are only two-year-old babies. They still need the care of parents. We must correctly understand the children’s inner thoughts and learn to be appropriate Respect their ideas on the issue.
Be a good example. The child’s first no is probably learned from his father or mother. The better your behavior, the child’s behavior will imitate you to regulate themselves.
diverts the child’s attention. At this time, the child’s attention is easier to divert. When they are crying endlessly, you can try this method: for example, you are surprised to say "Huh, there is a little cat", this Then they would stop crying and curiously go to see where the kitten is.
Parents must have a set of fixed principles when getting along with their children, so that both parents and children will play a restrictive role.
Don’t expect your child to be obedient. If a child of this age sleeps without crying, eating or getting enough, like in confinement, then you should be more worried.
understands children's possessive desire for toys.
Don't force children to do things they don't like.
Don't compare your own children with other children.
Don't be swayed by the child's "mother for me" and "dad for me", insist on doing what the child can do by himself, if it is impossible, it depends on whoever is convenient to do it.
Don't take away their toys without permission.
If it is not necessary, do not interrupt what the child is doing.
If the child does something wrong, find a way to patiently guide it instead of directly violently solving it.
Terrible2 means that children begin to have their own ideas, and they begin to have a more correct and deeper understanding of the world. This period will always pass, and they will become sensible and well-behaved one day. Most importantly, they need the patient guidance and company of their parents.
For children, they roll around because of the patience of mom and dad, because the place where they trust the most is the place where they feel safest.
Reference:
[1]. "How to Talk to Children Most Effectively" Zhu Dan, Shu Hong Petroleum Industry Press 2007.06.01
[2]. "Zheng Yuqiao Parenting Scripture" Zheng Qiaoyu 21st Century Press 2013.1.1
[3]. "Your 2-year-old child" [America] Louis Ames, [America] Francis Yell Ke Jiangxi Science and Technology Press 2012
