According to Cong's mother, she said that she had no child in her family today, and she said that she had no child, and that she was the best daring mother
who was born in 1985 to teach her that she has no children, and that she is the best child to teach in her family. Happening.
When she asked, I remembered that when Dabao was in kindergarten, there was a period of time when she was scared to watch her favorite cartoon, and she was scared everywhere. Because of this, I asked the principal of the kindergarten. The director of
told me several reasons, 1. If there is a second treasure at home, is there too much attention to the second treasure? Dabao is asking for attention. 2. Is there a lack of nutritional elements? Sometimes lack of nutrition will also have an impact.
I told my friend the two answers I asked at the time. She told me that it might be because the child's imagination is too rich, which has been the case since the age of 2.
Children’s imagination is rich, which is a good thing, and now I hope older children can diverge their thinking. But for my friend, the child's imagination is too rich, and everything looks like a monster. She is really upset. For example, when you see clothes hanging on a hanger, you say it is a monster.
I said that next time the child talks about big monsters, don’t tell the child "Where is there any monster, what is terrible about monsters". Since the child has a lot of imagination, then follow her thoughts and make up the story. , Or asking questions to guide her thinking, such as asking her if the monster is cold and she needs to wear clothes, etc., in short, weave her a relaxed and happy ending of the story, weave her a cute and cute monster, so slow Slowly guide her view of the monster.
In fact, no matter what method is used for children, the starting point is always good. The core of educating children is love for children. If we meet a child with a particularly rich imagination, what we must do is to protect the child’s imagination. This divergence Sexual thinking is very rare when you grow up.
This article is also written for myself, let's encourage, an old mother who is constantly learning and exploring on the way of educating her children.
