Hello everyone, I am a senior family education instructor Love.
Do you hope your child will have a good popularity?
Of course! Children with good popularity are attractive. Everyone likes wherever they go and can also have a lot of special care. meets the nobles in life!
What kind of children are popular? Sister Chen, who is the principal of a kindergarten in the community, has rich teaching experience and found that as the child grows up, parents attach importance to cultivating children of "three big and one small", which will be even more welcome and loved by everyone!
"Zuo Zhuan Yin Gong·The Third Year of Yin Gong" once said: I love my son and teach him the righteousness. How to educate children is a real good way? You can start from 3 large and 1 small to enhance your child’s character and charm!
① A big heart can accept other people’s shortcomings.
The old saying goes: Great amount and blessings are great. Children with a high mind can accept other people's shortcomings and deficiencies. Other people's weaknesses can be tolerated. He is broad-minded and can forgive his classmates' unexpected actions, and will not care about it. He lends his pen to his classmates for use.
Mencius said: Those who love others will always love them. When children continue to give love, they will also receive everyone's love and support.
②Love is great, can be kind and love the weak.
" Disciples Rules " says: It is better to give more, and it is better to get less. Give more for others and don’t care what you will get.
Care for your family, and you can feel at home that your parents work hard and do housework is not easy. Will take the initiative to participate in housework. He will also use the same love to help classmates and friends. In
" Big Test ", Zhou Bowen often helps his mother who runs restaurants to help his classmates explain questions. Even on the day of the college entrance examination, he found that classmate Tian Wenwen was in danger, he would rather give up the college entrance examination than go to save his classmates. Later, the college entrance examination was postponed so that they could successfully take the college entrance examination.
③Help people and see what others need at any time.
Psychology professor Kang Kaiping, in "Children's Character", believes that Kindness is the real competitiveness of children. Kindness in life means helping others with a big heart. You can discover the needs of classmates and the hard work of parents.
④ Emotional fluctuations are very small, you can think calmly, face positively, and have good ability to resist setbacks.
Napoleon once said: "A person who can control his emotions is greater than a general who can win a city." This shows how difficult it is to manage emotions.
in " Little Joy " Fang Yifan learned that the parents' work had changed, the father lost his job, the mother's work was not going well, and she had a second child. Fang Yifan did not have too many emotional fluctuations, but actively thought of ways to find a tutor to overcome the crisis at that time.
Emotions are easy to get out of control. Children who often deal with collapse are prone to complain about the bad environment, the bad teachers, and the bad classmates. In short, they have never thought about their own mistakes, have never reflected on their own shortcomings, and are heartbroken.
Parents who attach importance to Family education can start from the following points to help their children become people with good popularity!
First, let the child participate in housework.
Only by learning to be grateful.
Letting children participate in housework can enhance their sense of value and achievement, and let children experience the hard work of their parents, be more grateful to their parents, and be grateful to those around them and provide services to themselves. Grow up with gratitude, and their children's future will be broader.
Secondly, when encountering difficulties, guide the child to find several more methods.
weak ability to resist frustration is because the child feels that it is too difficult. Parents will develop their children to think from a different perspective and find that there are always more methods than difficulties.
can guide the child to think about what other methods can be solved and which trick can be used to solve it better. When children get used to it and think of more methods, they will have fewer worries. Wisdom open !
Finally, expand your mind and constantly discover your shortcomings.
Children with small minds can only see other people's shortcomings.
Children with high minds can constantly see their shortcomings.
At home, parents need to discover their children's strengths every day, reflect on some of their regrets, tell stories and chat, and communicate more with their children. Children will develop this habit and are willing to face their shortcomings.
During the growth process, cultivate children to expand their minds, have strong ability to resist setbacks, and be able to tolerate other people's shortcomings, so that they can become a person with good popularity, good development and unlimited future!
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