Only brave and decisive children can achieve greater achievements in life, and have good goals, but it has to be admitted that some children are more timid. But some parents don’t know how this mentality is formed with you. In fact, this is closely related to these reasons. We must not take it seriously.
Why do children have timidity? The reason why
has such a problem is that their desire to interact is limited. They do need to date others in their lives, such as , for example, they need to date their parents, , and then they will date relatives and friends, and even with neighbors and friends.
When they are dating, Their desires will continue to increase. However, some parents never let their children interact. They always feel that their children are not safe to interact with others, so they will put their children at home. So from my perspective, we can see that it is very necessary to organize reasonable communication activities, so that children can gradually become bolder and they are willing to get along with the people around them.
Psychology has long pointed out such a problem, , that is, these children are a critical period for achieving autonomy in early childhood. Children at this stage of have learned to walk and talk. At the same time, they also like to ask questions and imitate them, and have developed a sense of self-awareness. During this process, children are willing to do what they like. As long as they can do according to their own ideas, there will be no problems.
But in this process they will become very naughty and disobedient, but this is also an independent development, one of the manifestations, , and they will also experience the first period of resistance during the psychological growth process. However, many parents are particularly afraid that when facing this problem, they will feel that their children have no way to do this.
Therefore, they will do everything with one hand, and thus suppresses the development of children's autonomy. When they grow up, they will become a child who doubts their abilities, and they will become timid. Therefore, the best way to avoid this problem is to not always take care of the children's affairs. We should give them opportunities for development, and we should also encourage and agree with the children so that they can ensure that the children are better.
Furthermore, the child's self-esteem is frustrated. When parents see that their children have done something wrong, will choose to criticize or blame the child. This way, the child will easily doubt their abilities, and will therefore become timid.
Also, there are some children that are not as perfect as they imagined. They may have some minor physical problems or bad habits. Therefore, parents will face their children in a ridiculous way. will easily hurt their children's self-esteem, thus forming a timid mentality.
So if you want your child to become a person who is no longer timid, then we should find these reasons and face the child in the right way. We must not laugh at the child’s minor problems, and we should also let the child have close contact with the outside world. can make them a bold person. Boldness is inevitable helping for children.
