The phenomenon of late marriage and late childbirth is becoming increasingly common, which is also the inevitable result of social development. Everyone wants to work hard for a few more years while they are young, and do not want to be tied up by marriage.
The meaning of marriage is not just a marriage certificate , but it means responsibility and responsibility to the family. Although you don’t have to worry about food and clothing now, the requirements for quality of life are endless.
If there is no certain foundation, car loans and mortgage loans alone can make people breathless, so the quality of life will also become an empty talk that is beyond reach.
Start a career first and then start a family is the choice of most people, but sometimes they have to bow to reality, such as this 16-year-old girl.
Documentary: A 16-year-old girl holds a wedding when she is pregnant and
Everyone knows that girls must be over 20 years old to get a marriage certificate. Even if they hold the wedding first and then get the certificate, they will not be in a hurry. At the age of 16, they are still a child.
However, this 16-year-old child is already pregnant, isn’t it a bit difficult to say? Reality is so helpless.
Whiteness is indeed beautiful when paired with the wedding dress and tender face, but this little bride seems to be in a bad mood and bites her lips and is worried.
The slightly raised abdomen seemed a little abrupt, and the wide down jacket couldn't stop it. I don't know what she was thinking.
The scene is deserted and
Compared with the general wedding, this wedding was a bit too deserted. There were no guests who came to congratulate him except the parents of both the newlyweds.
It’s not that the guests refused to come, but that they didn’t invite them at all. Logically speaking, this is the biggest joy in life and a sign that children grow up.
Which parent doesn’t like to share the joy of getting married with relatives and friends? Countless parents are worried about their children's marriage, but these two parents do the opposite, which is really sad.
Except for a few villagers who ran over to watch the fun, there was no festive atmosphere at all. There was no even an emcee inviting the wedding, and the groom's elders did it on their behalf.
Parents want to keep a low profile
The fundamental reason is that parents want to keep a low profile. Although there are precedents when they are teenagers get married and have children, and even some relatively remote areas are still prevalent, it is still extremely rare in the local area.
If relatives and friends ask me why this child got pregnant at such a young age, how will the parents explain it?
Maybe some people will say that you can get rid of it even if you are pregnant. Nowadays, medicine is so developed, it should not have much impact on the body. Moreover, it is an open and inclusive society now, and no one will pay attention to these.
Don’t ignore the issue of face. No matter how society develops, face is a problem that cannot be avoided, especially for older generations, who still value face.
It has come to this point. Getting married may be the best way. I hope that parents and friends can pay more attention to their children's education and do whatever age they are. There are still some uncertainties in entering society too early.
