parents are the first tutor of their children's lives . They always let their children learn their parents' words and behaviors and the principles of dealing with others through unintentional methods.
Many times, the way parents communicate with their children is incorrect, but they do not correct it, resulting in the child being passively accepted.
Most children can only accept the guidance of their parents and dare not give their opinions to their parents. Unexpectedly, a four-year-old cute baby, actually educated her mother.
Cute kids think that their mother speaks fiercely, and she teaches her on-site
Shandong 14-year-old cute kids talk to their mother while sleeping. He told his mother whether he could not be raped by him in the future, and said aggrievedly that every time his mother raped him, he would feel uncomfortable.
Not only that, the child also took the initiative to tell his mother that every time he talked to him with gentle words, he would love especially mother.
When the mother heard these words, she had not thought about how to answer the child. She didn't expect that the child would actually teach on-site and tell her mother how to communicate with herself.
When the mother replied that she knew, the little guy was not satisfied and took the opportunity to propose how her mother called her name.
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When the mother heard the cute baby’s request, she was amused and crying. But when I saw the little look of the child's desire, I still felt soft-hearted.
learned the tone of the child and gently called the child's name. After hearing this, the child smiled with satisfaction and stared at his mother with a smile.
is filled with happiness in my heart and feels the changes my mother has made for me.
Parents need to pay attention to their conversation, which affects their children's personality shaping
In fact, parents always inadvertently express their communication methods. Many times, they do not think about it, thinking that this is not a big deal.
This has a very profound impact on children , especially babies in the growth stage, will automatically accept parental signals.
When parents speak to their children in a more fierce tone, the child's young mind will be subjected to a strong impact and will question the parents' love for them.
automatically thinks if he has done something wrong again, which makes his parents unhappy. This will make the child tremble. doesn’t know how to communicate with his parents. For a long time, the relationship between them will be alienated. Children like
dare not take the initiative to show themselves in front of their parents, for fear of making mistakes and being scolded by their parents.
will affect the child's future personality for a long time. Children in the growth stage are sensitive to , and requires parents to pay attention at all times.
Because children are afraid of their parents' severity, they will hide their thoughts in their hearts. Over time, the children will not have too much desire to share, form an introverted personality, and dare not communicate with their parents' normally.
More importantly, parents' words and deeds teach children to subtly empathize
When entering school to communicate with classmates, they cannot get along with each other calmly. In the long run, the child's partners will gradually alienate him, thinking that he has a sharp tone and does not know how to respect others.
After entering society, the child exposes his personality in daily communication with colleagues, allowing his colleagues to avoid them.
This will not only affect the child's future interpersonal relationships, but also affect the child's future career development path. Parents should correct their speaking methods in a timely manner. Only in this way can prevent problems before they happen.
Parents should pay attention to the tone of communication, change the improper way
Improper way of communication has a profound impact on their children, and parents should distinguish their own educational methods.
When the child is making mistakes, parents can change their previous kind attitude, let their children realize their mistakes, and see their parents' firm attitude towards correcting their mistakes.
This way children will also realize when parents' tone will change, is mentally prepared for and dare not make mistakes easily.
In daily communication, parents should respect their children's ideas and can often use inquiry to let their children express their thoughts.
Try to and Yan Yuese . Getting along with your children as a friend will make your children work hard to open their hearts and share what they think with their parents, and will not stick to their inner world.
Not only speak in a gentle tone to children, but also adopt the same tone when communicating with people around them.
Because when children see their parents polite and gentle and humble, they will automatically be attracted by their parents' personal charm and learn how to deal with people.
When the child makes suggestions to his parents, parents correct it in time, which will make the child realize the degree of concern of the parents for themselves, and will also make the child feel the attitude of parents correcting their mistakes. In the future, they will also get along with others with an approachable attitude.
There are many benefits to gentle communication. Parents and children make progress together
No one will be parents when they are born. Many times, parents do some inappropriate things, which is also an unintentional mistake in , which does not mean that parents are unqualified parents.
More times, parents need to correct their humility. When parents can correct their mistakes in a timely manner, they will create a good example of for their children.
What parents say and promise, you must do what they say and do not perfunctory to your children at will. Once parents do not keep their promises, the child will doubt their parents’ authority , and will not communicate with each other, nor will he trust their parents.
Communicating with children gently will allow children to learn the way parents communicate invisibly, and they will also use gentle and kind ways to communicate with others.
Seeing a docile child, people around you will realize that parents are good at educating their children. They not only affirm their parents' education methods, but also praises sensible children.
There are many age differences between parents and children, which also means that there is a long generation gap between the two parties. These generation gaps require frequent communication between parents and children to be eliminated in a timely manner.
When parents and children can communicate normally with , will enter the inner time of both parties, and the children will feel the caress of their parents. In the future, children who will face life actively with a firm and confident attitude and love life will also prosper in their future lives.
communication between people and the feelings between people have a great impact. During the communication process, children will also absorb their parents' life wisdom and understand the principles of dealing with people.
Candy Mom’s thoughts: Children dare to express their ideas to their parents, which shows that their children’s trust in their parents. Parents should also accept their children’s signals in a timely manner and work hard to adjust themselves.
communicates with children in a peaceful tone, which will make children like spring breeze , and will also improve their relationship with parents in the future, and parents and children will achieve win-win results.
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