Usually when we walk around the community, we always see some mothers with children. When we chat and say hello, we found that some children are very conscious of their children, while some babies are very cheerful and can do whatever they want.
Some people say that it is easier to take care of babies if they don’t recognize them. This type of children are mostly cheerful and can see the world. But some people say that if the baby doesn’t recognize giving birth, it means the child is not smart enough. I don’t know whether it’s good or bad for the baby to refuse to admit that such a thing is good or bad.
In fact, from the perspective of children's psychological development, babies should recognize their childbirth at about eight months. At this time, the little ones are still in an attachment relationship. Being able to recognize their child means there is a link between the child and the closest mother, which shows that the mother usually accompanys the child very well. Of course, if the child is mainly brought by the grandma or the grandma is mainly brought by the grandma, the child will recognize the grandma or grandma more and show the status of recognizing the child to others.
This also shows that the early child care is very successful.
After the child enters eight months, the child can gradually establish an attachment relationship with other people with the help of his mother. For example, dad, like other relatives at home. The more people a child knows, the more appropriate the attachment relationship, the better and more sound the child’s inner sense of security will be.
The statement that it is easy to bring if you don’t recognize your child is now self-defeating. Children's stages of recognizing birth are different, so they cannot be generalized. There is not a single reason why a child refuses to give birth.
1. Children may have attachment disorders
If the child is not well-raised in the early stage, or if there is no key person to directly and seriously warm and protect the child, the child may have attachment disorders, which will make the child "not accepting birth". He can be with anyone at a young age. They are generally not afraid of strangers and do not refuse them.
2. Autism
Some children are either born or acquired or have little chance of raising children through their relatives, which leads to a cold relationship between their children and their relatives. Then it is difficult for such children to form a good connection with their parents and relatives. In fact, they have a relatively poor understanding of the outside world and are relatively lacking in social nature, so naturally they cannot recognize their children. Instead, it is a manifestation of not accepting their children.
3. Intellectual Retreatment
The so-called intellectual retreatment is actually a manifestation of insufficient brain development. In this case, it is not difficult to understand that the child does not recognize his child's child, because he may not even think that his mother is the closest person.
It can be seen that early companionship of children is very important. Even if mothers have more excuses, they should spend more time with their children. Once they find that the child still has no sign of recognizing birth after eight months, then we must be vigilant. On the one hand, we should check whether the relatives spend less time with their children. On the other hand, we should check whether there are some problems in the child, find the cause as soon as possible, and intervene in the treatment as soon as possible.
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