Only those who have children at home can realize how hard it is to raise children. Many mothers complain that fathers rarely focus on their children, and some mothers are worried about their father's carelessness and dare not leave their children to their father to take care of.

Only those who have children at home can realize how hard it is to raise children.

Many mothers complain that fathers rarely focus on their children, and some mothers are worried about their father's carelessness and dare not leave their children to their father to take care of.

In fact, the difference between parents’ two perspectives and gender differences will still make them different in raising children.

Overall, fathers are relatively more rational and have relatively stable emotions. During the parenting process, fathers participate more, and their children's adventurous spirit and principle are stronger than children raised by only mothers or elderly people.

From the perspective of educational methods, fathers often have the following characteristics:

cultivate children's sense of responsibility

Dad plays the role of "responsible bearer" in the family. Once the child has too little contact with his father, the family No in Dad is a role model for "responsible".

It is difficult for children to develop their decisive, restrained, and brave to take responsibility and solve problems, resulting in negative behaviors such as avoiding problems.

Emotionally stable and more independent

Research has found that in addition to being more willing to take responsibility and be more independent, his mentality is more tolerant and open, his thinking is more rational and logical, and his independence is better than that of children raised by mothers. , and all of these are necessary conditions for future career success and pursuing your ideal life.

This is because most men take children to adopt the "free-range mode". When the children eat and are covered in food, their father will not scold him. If the children want to try swing , most fathers will encourage him. Unlike mothers who would "think" about safety issues.

The father's tolerance gave the child the hint of "Go and do it, everything is with your father, you are worth trying the whole world", which made the child's "independent opinions" affirm.

cultivate good interpersonal relationships

In children's psychological counseling , many visiting children are withdrawn, weak, and have bad interpersonal relationships with classmates. Most of them are related to their father's long-term failure to participate in family education .

Some of their fathers work in other places, some rarely see their children after divorce, and some have high positions and are in power, go out early and come back late every day, and they can't see each other once a week.

When raising children, mothers are more gentle, caring and meticulous. When children grow up, they cannot obtain extensive, enterprising and outgoing qualities from their fathers. When they get along with classmates and friends, they will naturally appear introverted and weak.

stimulates children's interest in new things

When you are with your children, you often engage in some exploratory activities. If the child takes the toy apart, the mother often scolds him.

But the father often dislikes it, and even disassembles the toys with the child to satisfy the child's curiosity, and then teaches him to put the toys in place.

In addition, fathers are more interested in new things, which will also stimulate children's interest in new things.

Develop the habit of loving exercise

Children with good relationships with their father are also better in exercise and coordination.

You can see if the female fans and girls playing basketball around you all have a father who loves this kind of sports.

Dad can be regarded as the child’s first physical education teacher. Many children’s sports concepts and habits are passed down from their fathers.

The physical and mental health of children cannot be separated from the company of their parents. Fathers should also take time to participate in their children's growth when they are busy with work, especially in important periods when children's personality formation is formed.

Fathers have always played an important role in the growth of their children.

From research, fathers can give children greater advantages in growth, which should be something that every father should be proud of.

At the same time, the participation of mother and mother-in-law is also important. The combination method will be very good and will create a good opportunity for children to grow.