One kind of helplessness is the dilemma between work and family. Too many parents have to leave the family to work in order to make a living, leaving their children to be taken care of by the elderly. Such a girl inevitably became a member of the left-behind children , and she has been living with her grandma. And her grandma also loved her very much. Even if she had little savings, she would spend it on her children, hoping that her children would grow up healthier and happier.
The long-term companionship has also allowed the girl to establish a strong relationship with her grandma. The girl likes to stay with her grandma when there is nothing wrong, and the grandma will also cook delicious food for the girl in various ways. With her grandma by her side, the girl feels at ease and safe. happy.
Gradually, the girl grew up, and grandma also got old, and her health became worse and worse. In order not to burden everyone, grandma returned to rural life. After grandma left, grandma came . Grandma and grandma are about the same age.
For grandma, girls have never been very fond of , mainly because they think grandma is too patriarchal over girls. Every time the boy comes to visit a relative's house, he always seems to be particularly enthusiastic. At this time, he seems to have become air and is completely ignored.
After entering the workplace, it can be regarded as a new beginning. The girl's place of work is a bit far from home, for the convenience of traveling, the girl wants to buy a car. In fact, it is also needed at work, because the girl’s job involves business trips. Regarding the idea of buying a car , grandma is very opposed to . She believes that girls should not imitate others to buy cars, and that marriage should be the most important thing to consider.
The girl naturally found it difficult to accept what grandma said. She responded directly to grandma, I am also a member of this family and have my own choices and freedoms. What right do you have to interfere?
When mom and dad saw something was wrong, they immediately came out to persuade her and immediately criticized the girl. How could you talk to grandma like this? She is an elder and needs respect and filial piety from the younger generation. was a little unhappy when he heard these girls. It was clear that grandma was a bit unreasonable, favored boys over girls, and was dismissive of her granddaughter. What she did why did you ask me to respect each other? Everyone is mutual.
Dad said: No matter what you have experienced, you should be filial to your grandma. Grandma has paid a lot for this family and suffered a lot along the way.. Now that you are an adult and sensible, you should not think about the past. Being brooding will only affect family harmony , which is not a good thing.
After hearing what her father said, the girl's attitude improved and she immediately apologized to her grandma. Then Dad also had a chat with Grandma, asking Grandma not to always hold on to the feudal ideas of the past. In today's era, men and women are the same. Don't be treated unequally because of gender differences. This will hurt the child's heart.
said Filial piety is the first of all virtues . Filial piety is also a traditional virtue in China. Our elders have raised us and we should be filial to them. Although there may sometimes be some conflicts and discord in the handling of relationships, and I don't like their thoughts and behaviors, their contributions are undeniable. "Sheep have the kindness of kneeling down to breastfeed, and crows have the kindness of feeding back." We should never forget the gratitude.
Many parents hope that their children will become talented and successful in the future. In fact, it is not more for themselves, but they hope that their children can live a good life in the future.. After you actually enter the society, your parents only want you to be healthy and safe. After all, as society changes, young people are under increasing pressure, and parents do not want their children to be too tired or hard. Of course, in real life, many children do put aside filial piety and only care about their own happiness.
Regardless of whether you are doing well or not, you should always think about your parents. Don't ignore them for various reasons. After all, as you grow older, you will spend less and less time with your parents.
The family is in harmony and everything is prosperous. We must handle the relationship between the family well.
First of all, we need to argue right from wrong and be sensible. If the elders do something inappropriate or wrong, they need to point it out in time. If not, If you do it, it will cause a lot of conflicts over time.
Secondly, it is necessary for to be good at communicating . It does not mean that one family does not enter the same family. Don't be too serious or stubborn when things happen. As long as you can communicate in time, you can understand each other, and your family will be more harmonious and happier.
In addition, we need to spend more time with each other. , the mother is worried about her son traveling thousands of miles away. If she is far away from home, she should go home more often, and if she is close to home, she should accompany her parents for a walk. Companionship in old age is also what parents need most, so that they will feel warmer.
Both parents and grandparents will grow old one day. Maybe they have done something wrong before, or they have done some wrong things, but their children should not take it too seriously . It is actually not easy for our elders to pull us up. Even if they do something wrong, we can point it out and communicate in time, and there is nothing that we can't deal with. We should always be grateful to our elders. They deserve respect and filial piety.
