Nowadays, many grandparents like to help their children take care of their children. However, most elderly people have more or less conflicts with their children in the process of taking care of their children.
So, how can the elderly help their children to take care of their children without causing conflicts?
First of all, it is not recommended for the elderly to help their children with their children!
However, if children beg their parents to help them raise their children, some things must be stated in advance!
The first thing is that the young couple must be responsible for the children's daily expenses.
The elderly feel sorry for their children, and even more so for their grandchildren, but no matter how much they feel sorry for the children, they must be clear about money. Taking care of children is already very hard work, so it would be nice not to have "nanny fees". If it goes on endlessly The final consequence of subsidizing children is that most of them are unappreciative of the children and their significant other, and may even be full of grumbles and complaints against their parents!
In fact, sensible children will understand that even if they give money to their parents, the elderly will not spend it randomly. Even if they spend it, it will be spent on their own children.
The main purpose of clarifying money with your children is for your children’s significant other, to let them know that parents are not obligated to help you take care of your children!
