As a typical post-70s generation, 40-year-old Ma Li finally gave birth to her second child. Compared with the time when my eldest child was born, this time it was obviously much smoother and not as painful as before. When the husband saw that his wife had given birth to his second child without suffering any consequences, he was very happy.
Not long after, a woman who gave birth to her first child came to the same ward. Seeing her discomfort, Mother Li comforted her and said: When you give birth to your second child, it won’t be so painful.
This sentence happened to be heard by the nurse who came to patrol the ward. Before I left, I stopped by and said: Giving birth to a second child, if it is and is a natural birth, will indeed be easier than when giving birth to the first child, but the prerequisite is to do a good pregnancy test and have a reasonable diet during pregnancy. Control your weight during pregnancy, otherwise giving birth to a second child will not be so smooth.
In fact, the nurse is right, but it is not comprehensive. It is easier for women to give birth to their second child naturally than to their first child for the following four reasons:
The first reason: the birth canal becomes enlarged
Since the birth canal will become enlarged during the birth process, when the second child is born, the fetus The birth passage becomes less narrow and tense.
The second reason: I have experience in giving birth to my first child.
After all, I have already given birth to one, so I am very experienced in the whole process. This makes it easier for us to cooperate with the doctor and is easier than the nervousness of the first time. Use your strength and find the right feeling.
The third reason: I am more willing to exercise
When you give birth to your first child, you will inevitably feel nervous because you don’t understand it. But when you give birth to your second child, you already have experience and know what you can’t do and what you can do. This inadvertent psychological and physical change will lay a good foundation for the second child. Make the process of having a second child easier and smoother.
The fourth reason: The psychological quality is better.
The experience of giving birth to a baby for the second time will make you emotionally more stable, your psychological quality will be stronger, and you will no longer have the fear of giving birth to a baby for the first time. . As long as we pay attention to nutritional intake and the child is healthy enough, he will have the energy to accept a natural birth calmly.
This kind of mentality adjustment that does not require other people to make it will help you to rationally and actively cooperate with the doctor's instructions when encountering any problems, thereby shortening the labor process.
In fact, we must admit that the mother who gave birth naturally is really great. She is using her own life to welcome a new life. As a family member, no matter whether it is their first child or their second child, they must treat her better and better.
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