In parent-child communication, it is OK to say:
"No matter what happens, I will be with you, I will always love you!"
"You are unique, go your way, be yourself!"
"Maybe you are right, I just suggest that the decision is up to you."
"I believe you can handle your own affairs well. If necessary, I will face it with you and do my best to accompany you."
" No matter how you do it or how you perform, you are my child, I still love you I
"I like your behavior, I don't like your behavior. This does not mean that I am right, you are wrong, but you must experience and take on everything yourself. "
It is not advisable to say in parent-child communication:
" Stupid, useless thing. "
" Stop it! Why are you just disobedient? "
" I said it would not work. "
" I will never care about you anymore, just do whatever you want. "
"If you score 100 points, I will buy it for you..."
"You are so good that you do such a thing! "
" You did something wrong again, so stupid! "
" You don't have much prospects at first sight, so you can pick up rags in the future! "
" are all the same children, why are you not as good as others! "
" just know how to play, but when you mention learning, you lose your energy. ”