As long as you don’t feel embarrassed, the embarrassing one is the other person...
The incident happened in Huizhou, Guangdong. A young child mistakenly recognized the strange woman in front of him as his mother, so he went wild and chased after him, fearing that he would not be able to catch up with his mother and was abandoned by her. She was so angry that she broke down and cried bitterly, while her mother was guarding her.
Children are not old and don’t understand some truths. It is understandable to admit the wrong person. At this time, parents need guidance and parents need to accompany them. When your child gets older, you don’t have to work so hard, but you also have to worry about your child’s growth and learning.
They do not have the ability to take care of themselves, and they must keep their children in sight whether they are eating or going out. It’s just that some parents are very determined and only care about their own fun, but ignore their children’s feelings. It’s okay if there is no accident, but they regret it if there is an accident. The child in the
video may have learned to walk for a short time and regarded the woman in front as a mother. The strange woman walked forward quickly, and he followed him behind. But he couldn't keep up with the woman's pace. Maybe he felt that his mother had abandoned him and cried bitterly.
The children's mood is understandable. They don't know anything and can't do anything. They can't live without their mother's company. They feel that the woman who is walking ahead is their mother, so they want to keep up. But what is the result? He couldn't keep up, and was so excited that he could only solve it with tears.
His mother did not go far, but followed behind. Seeing the child crying loudly, she called the child's name many times, wanting to know what the situation was. But the child was immersed in sadness and was naturally very anxious when he watched the strange woman in front of him walk away.
The child could not hear the mother's call, and just walked forward quickly until the mother caught up with the child. When the child saw the mother's figure, he became more excited and hugged the mother and did not let her go away. In the eyes of the child, the mother is everything and cannot leave her.
At first, the mother didn't understand why the child cried in front and walked faster than usual. When he walked to the child, he realized that he had mistakenly recognized the strange woman in front as his mother. He was so anxious that he was looking for him. After the
incident was announced, it caused heated discussion among netizens, and everyone praised it. However, most people accused the mother of her mother, saying that she failed to take good care of the child in time and failed to follow the child, so that such a thing happened. This incident could have been avoided, but she was too hearted.
"Does the mother calmly record the video behind, do you think it's fun?"
"It hurts a lot to the child's psychologically. Who can understand the fear in his heart?"
"The child is so young, not following the child, but the parent's heart is really too big"
"The little bag raised his hands to find a balance, afraid that he would fall while walking and not be able to keep up with the strange woman in front of him"
"The child chased after him because he was worried that he would be abandoned by his mother. He must have collapsed in his heart at that time"
Everyone's mood is understandable. After all, the child was so scared that he was not good at the time, but there was no need to exaggerate, especially for the child's mother. She didn't know why the child cried at that time. Only after following up did she find out the specific situation, and no one needed to criticize her.
education is not an easy task, especially when looking at children, it takes a lot of time and energy. You cannot see too tightly or too loosely. You must grasp a certain degree. But no matter what, the child should be in sight, and parents should also be in sight.
Perhaps after this, the child will be hurt in his heart and will take a long time to calm down. Parents will also realize the seriousness of the matter and will look at the child more attentively in the future, not leaving the child's vision, and will always be with the child.
The child is too young and doesn’t understand some things at all. He needs guidance from parents and needs parents to accompany him. But I have to admit that some parents always feel a little bit ambitious and think that it’s okay to let the child play by himself, but what if something happens? It’s too late to regret it again, cherish the present.
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