"Whose youth is this?" People often use this sentence to praise young and beautiful boys and girls. Because they have superior appearance, they are more likely to become the objects of adolescence. Moreover, this sentence is very suitable to praise people. They do not show off and carry people to a very high position.
There was a parent who made a general public message, but she did not think that she would become whose youth, but felt that her baby might be very popular when she grew up. looked at the high-profile photos she posted and understood why she said that.
"My daughter will be the youth of many people." The girl was wearing a princess dress to kindergarten. The parents were very proud.
A parent took a set of photos of the child on the way to kindergarten, and attached the copy "It's not that I am narcissistic, I feel that my daughter is really likely to become the youth of many people." I saw this child wearing a yellow princess dress looking at the scenery outside through the car window. Through the decoration of the car, it can be seen that her family is relatively good.
After sending the baby to kindergarten, saw the little girl walking on the lawn with her skirt. looked like a character in an oil painting, making people look blinded. Unfortunately, only her back is the one who can't sigh at the girl's appearance like a parent.
Of course, such eye-catching copywriting naturally attracted the attention of many people. After all, not all parents recognize their children like this. Even if they hold them in their palms, they will not easily praise their children in front of outsiders.
I think this should be a parent born in the 1980s or 1990s. After all, most parents born in the 1960s and 1970s are honest and honest. When others praise their children, they refuse to admit it. How could they "boast on their own"?
All Chinese people pay attention to being modest and introverted, so parents who speak like this have also been "slammed" by many people. Some people say, why don't send it out? It is very likely that it is a "passer-by-passer" in other people's youth, so what's there to send out.
But some people say that the most beautiful thing is just this skirt. As for the beautiful girls when they were young, they will become more and more mediocre when they grow up. As long as they are whiter and thinner, the girls are not ugly, and there is nothing to show off. Parents don’t know what to say, and have not replied to other people’s comments for a long time.
The daughter was wearing a princess dress to go to kindergarten. The parents were very proud, but unexpectedly they were ridiculed by the crowd. The parents may still feel aggrieved. Although netizens' behavior of pouring cold water is indeed a bit too much, some people also said it very pertinently and straightforwardly. It may not be a good thing to dress up in kindergarten in .
What will happen to the students when parents pay too much attention to appearance?
Children in kindergarten start to receive education. First of all, they must establish a correct view of the three views. is more knowledgeable than learning more. The good qualities learned from parents and teachers in daily life are more valuable. Therefore, this kind of performance of parents can actually easily breed students' vanity.
Some parents like to dress up, which will also make their children influenced you. Over time, after students go to elementary school, they will no longer focus on their studies. Instead, they will easily cause a lot of troubles because of their appearance. When they were young, they wanted to dress up and put on makeup, and when they were older, they would feel terrible.
does not accept people who look better than themselves, and they are more likely to be moved by the opposite sex who looks good. is the source of psychological problems that can easily lead to teenage students, so seeing the big ones from the small, the students' future is destined to be influenced by parents.
So, parents should also be careful not to instill the concept of "beautiful or not" in students at all times. will educate students' parents and tell their children that the inner self is always more important than appearance. If parents do not pay attention to their behavior, things may develop in an unpredictable direction.
Achieve children is the sacred responsibility of parents. Parents need to pay attention to their words and deeds
Many parents want to work hard for the next generation and create better living conditions for them. , but only pay attention to material things and do not care about family education , which is not good for students' growth. Not only should they pay attention to the consistency of words and deeds, but they should also convey the correct educational concept to students.
For example, teaching students to be low-key, although high-profile is also a way of life, over time, it is easy to develop a arrogant and comparative personality. It is better to remain humble and work hard to make progress faster.
Then teach students with practical actions what savings are. No matter how superior the family background is, parents work hard with both hands, not innate with their children, so they must work hard like parents, rather than enjoying the fruits.
is written at the end: In fact, it is in response to the parent's approach. Some people also said that this is very common. Anyway, you have the ability and your child can do whatever you want. But is this idea wrong? Should you not be too spoiled so that you won't fall into the education of the next generation. You want them to grow better. There are many good ways. What do you think?
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