When children reach a certain age, they must say goodbye to family-style education because they need to enter kindergarten. However, when faced with this matter, we must pay attention to these four things in , and can ensure that children's separation anxiety and emotions can be relieved. Otherwise, once anxiety occurs, the child's situation will become very bad.
Children have just entered kindergarten, parents should pay attention to these four things
When the child enters kindergarten for one or two weeks, They will definitely experience conditioned reflexes. For example, they will stand in place and cry. When parents see the scene of their children's tears, they will cry. In fact, for children, it is very normal to go to kindergarten to have a crying scene, and there is no need to worry too much.
Children often cry when entering kindergarten in the morning, and cry loudly, At this time, parents only need to do one thing, that is, say goodbye to them and then leave the place quickly. We always choose not to leave for a long time, which will prolong the time for children to cry.
Furthermore, the child will take a nap after entering kindergarten. for those children who have already developed habits, this may be easier. For children who have not developed habits, they are likely to cry.
Some children are particularly attached to the items at home, , for example, rag dolls, so we can completely let the children take the dolls to kindergarten together, can sleep with the dolls until they go to bed at noon. This will not only help you develop good working and rest habits, but also help your children avoid separation anxiety.
At this time, we should not give our children snacks after we go home. When the child first goes to kindergarten, he will definitely become very nervous. won’t have a good meal at the beginning. When facing this, we should not overly care about how much the child eats. We just need to ask what the child eats every day. If you don’t eat much, then wait until they get home and have dinner with their family.
However, when taking your children to eat, don’t eat too much snacks, because once you develop such a bad habit, it will be difficult to correct it. means not to prepare big fish and meat for your children at night. This kind of thing is very greasy and can easily cause indigestion.
Finally, we must understand that companionship is the best reward, and children go to kindergarten is a process of growth. For parents, children are constantly growing. After children enter kindergarten, we should take more time to accompany them, especially after returning home every day, we can take them outdoors to play and laugh together, so that the children can completely relax.
When the child goes to bed at night, we can lie on the same bed with the child, tell them some interesting stories, can ensure that the child does not feel separation anxiety when he goes to kindergarten.
So it is normal for children to experience separation anxiety when they go to kindergarten. As long as we pay more attention to this aspect, there will basically be no problems. Don’t worry about this matter, because the more we are worried about the final result, the worse it may be. Therefore, when facing this problem, we must relax our mindset.
