In fact, many of my parents will do wrong things in the process of educating their children. For example, they always like to beat or scold their children. In fact, the results of this approach will not be very good. can completely face children in a hint way, and can ensure that children become more well-behaved, and at the same time, children are willing to obey our ideas.
The hint method to make children become obedient
In life, we can express our thoughts with eyes. For example, when we tell stories to children, children are always careless, and even make small moves, so we can completely stop and look at them with our eyes.
When we look at them, They can realize that what they do is wrong. The eyes themselves are a silent language, and they can express their feelings more delicately than language. The main purpose of eyes is to speak with your eyes and show your attitude, otherwise the child will definitely not understand the parents' ideas.
is a hint of expression. For example, if a guest comes to your home, some children will be very happy , so people will be crazy. There was a burst of laughter and a burst of screams, and they even liked to show their thoughts in front of people in this way. At this time, we can frown and let the children see our thoughts. At this time, their voices will be much lower.
expressions are more clear than eyes, because human expressions can convey a variety of information, such as certain, cannot, should not, etc. When children see our expressions, they will be able to realize what we think, and they will not do something wrong. Of course, when children do something good, we can also use a smile to motivate them, which can also make them better.
This is what we can also use words to hint. For example, children never fold quilts after getting up, We reminded them several times, and they have not completed what they should have done. Then at this time we can use words to hint them and let them realize their problems. Since
is a hint, we should not express our opinions directly in words. Even if chooses to criticize children, we should also adopt a roundabout way. , for example, uses metaphor or comparison, and cleverly expresses our own views, so that the children can understand and feel that the voice of their parents is gentle.
Furthermore, it is the hint of action. It is already past nine o'clock in the evening. The child is still watching TV on the sofa. If we choose not to say a word at this time, will definitely not be able to solve the problem.
But we can completely spread the quilt on the bed. Through this silent expression, can make the child realize that he should go to bed at this time. action suggests that body language is to express one's own thoughts in this way, which is very useful.
Besides, if you don’t know how to educate your children, will use hints to make children aware of the thoughts we want to express. will ensure that children obey our ideas and that they can also be aware of their mistakes.
