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Everyone has a name. The names are generally given by parents or grandparents, or the closest people around them. The names are generally good blessings for children, but the names also have the meaning of expectation or favoring boys over girls.
prefer boys over girls In the generation of grandparents, their thinking is deep-rooted . Although the generation of parents may be better, there is still a phenomenon of favoring boys over girls. The reason why the status of favoring boys over girls is so deeply rooted is due to the traditional idea on the one hand;
On the other hand, it is because the elderly believe that can only be passed down from the family line , and girls are all for others to raise. Because of the existence of favoring boys over girls, many girls have been treated unfairly since childhood, and even if they have to use their names for a lifetime, they cannot be spared.
finally doesn’t need to be called “Zhaodi” anymore. The name change of the Henan girl became popular. Netizens: She changed her name not
Everyone’s name is unique, but the name that favors boys over girls brings more burdens and pressures to girls. Just like the girl's name is "Zhaodi", "Pandi", and "Laidi" , the same is true for those with different pronunciations, and "Male" is used in the name.
names like
are not for the children themselves, but for the hope of a boy, which also causes great psychological harm to girls. causes frequent renaming of names in . A girl named Zhaodi in Henan became popular because of changing her name.
The reason why parents named this girl was in the name , which is to hope to attract her younger brother , in other words, parents prefer boys over girls. This has caused considerable psychological harm to girls and is even more reluctant to communicate with their parents.
doesn’t like others to call their own names, and their parents don’t care about it. After all, the younger brother is more popular with their parents. This also caused the girl to feel inferior, so she changed her name after working.
From now on, will no longer be called "Zhaodi", and can start a new life . After reading it, many netizens also said: She changed her name not her name, but her future life. I have to say that the phenomenon of favoring boys over girls is really terrible.
: The idea of favoring boys over girls is not only reflected in the name, but also in other aspects.
: The idea of favoring boys over girls has existed for a long time, which has led to the idea being deeply rooted. Although the times are constantly developing and people's thoughts are constantly changing, the thoughts of the older generation are still the same as favoring boys over girls.
And preferring boys over girls is not only reflected in names, can be reflected in all aspects of life . The neighbors in the rural hometown prefer boys over girls. The girls have never been liked by their grandparents since childhood, and have never even held their own granddaughter, nor have they given a penny or even a piece of candy.
Every time my granddaughter goes to my grandparents' house happily, she will be driven out. Later, my grandparents even said in public that they have no "descendants" in front of the villagers. Compared to this girl in Henan, her name is considered light, and the psychological damage caused to her will never be cured in her lifetime.
Although favoring boys over girls cannot completely disappear, it does not affect girls' efforts. It is proved with strength: Who says women are not as good as men
Although the times are constantly developing, it is impossible to completely disappear because of the older generation of Yingxian , there is also a phenomenon of favoring boys over girls among contemporary young people. It can be said that favoring boys over girls will be spread from generation to generation with the development of the times.
Since you can't change it, make yourself stronger. girls can also change their destiny with their own efforts, and have some things to do as . Throughout history, there have been many female legends of , , Wu Zetian , Miyue , and Western Ye Katerina , etc. are all outstanding female characters.
These characters prove that girls can also make a difference. At present, girls can take civil servants and postgraduate exams. In fact, it has proved that it is easier for girls to get ashore in , and almost all the teachers in the system are girls' world .
Even in places like military academies and police academies that generally prefer to recruit boys, or even hardly accept girls, there are many outstanding girls. There are also many important positions held by female personnel.
can be seen that girls are not worse than boys, and it makes sense that women are as good as men. But this premise is that girls must put in more effort and hard work, because in the same position, girls will have higher opportunities and requirements than boys.
Therefore, even in a family that prefers boys over girls, even if they are treated unfairly and wronged, they cannot give up their efforts. must be transformed into motivation to move forward . Use their strength to prove that girls are not worse than boys.
Conclusion
After changing his name, Henan girls finally bid farewell to "Zhaodi" and can start a new life. The past inferiority and haze will be wiped out, and their mental outlook is more like a different person, and they feel like they are reborn after a disease.
It can be seen from this that the phenomenon of favoring boys over girls is really harmful. This girl from Henan is still lucky. She changed her name and dared to challenge her life. In the past, there were no good future and development due to various reasons.
But I didn't expect that there were some things that affected the future because of the name. But from another perspective, this is also a loss for the country, because these girls named "Zhaodi" cannot be guaranteed to become pillars of the motherland, but they lost such opportunities because of their names.
Do you have a name around you called "Zhaodi"? What do you think about favoring boys over girls? Welcome to leave a comment below.
