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Hello everyone, I am Fuling Mom.
I saw a story a few days ago and I will share it with you.
5-year-old Jia Jia (pseudonym) has been in contact with tablet computers for a long time during the National Day holiday. blinks for a long time, and sometimes blinks several times in a row.
Parents think it is excessive use of their eyes.
is easy to understand. After being exposed to electronic products for a long time, my eyes are dry and I always blink unconsciously.
We have been facing the computer for a long time.
Afraid of vision problems in the child, he decided to take the child to the ophthalmology hospital for a check-up.
However, after a comprehensive examination, the ophthalmologist did not find any problems with the child's eyes. He prescribed a bottle of eye drops and told the child to watch the computer.
After returning home, the child's symptoms not only did not improve, but instead became more and whispered . He went to the examination again, but still no abnormalities were found. The doctor just said that it might be a habitual movement.
realized that it was unusual...
I really realized that the child might be a little abnormal. It was the time I went to the foreign teacher class that time. The child acted extremely excited. He followed the foreign teacher behind him and ran around in the classroom. He was completely disobeying the discipline and couldn't stop shouting.
The parents cast surprised eyes, which made Jia Jia's mother feel a little embarrassed. After the course of
, the assistant teacher called Jia Jia's mother and suggested that she have time to learn more about ADHD. The sentence
changed the child's life.
Jia Jia's mother went home and read a lot of information about ADHD. After glances at her eyes, she accidentally saw another word - tics.
Coincidentally, the symptoms are highly consistent with Jia Jia's previous performance of blinking and silence.
suddenly had a direction for treatment.
So, register.
The hospital diagnosed it with mild tics.
What does tics look like? My child often winks at me and acts cute. Is it because of tics?
I'll show you two pictures, maybe you will understand.
Let’s look at the following pictures first. Are the babies very cute and cute?
Look at the following animated picture↓↓↓
At the beginning, the tics often start from the face, such as blinking, frowning, grinning, and making strange appearances.
As the condition progresses, the tics gradually worsen.
affects the neck, shoulders, upper and lower limbs, and
twists the neck, shrugs, swings the arms, kicks, bulges the belly, and even twitches all over the body.
If the respiratory muscles and swallowing muscles twitch, the child will make various sounds, such as coughing, humming, hiccups, hiccups, throat clearing, nose spraying, and even dog barking.
Sometimes there will be cursing, spitting, and various gestures. Why does
develop into tics?
The first reason we attribute to insufficient positive.
Let me tell you a story first:
A child, his father is a Western medicine doctor, and he is a very famous Western medicine doctor, and he is also studying traditional Chinese medicine.
But the child had tics, so he went to a hospital specializing in treating tics and found a Chinese medicine doctor.
prescribed medicine, but in the end it didn't take it.
Why?
Because this Western medicine father who understands traditional Chinese medicine thinks it is unreliable when he sees the prescription, his father knows it is not reliable, so he looks unreliable when he sees it.
asked a friend to find me, so I will tell him the truth, and this father will understand immediately.
What is the reason that makes my father understand and convince him at once?
Then I will talk about it for you doctors.
When you see a child, the child's phenomenon is to twitch his neck. Why does
draw?
involves an important knowledge point, called yang belongs to movement and is the main static.
Doesn’t you understand as soon as you hear these words?
Then I will give you an example:
Please stand up and hold a 2-liter kettle at this moment, and hold it without moving.
Is your kettle going to move?
What makes the kettle still in your hands?
is power!
This power is Yang.
Stillness is Yin, so Yang is the static.
Yang makes the jing in that quiet state, and it is because of this power that the kettle is still.
That is to say, why do children twitch and move too much?
is because this power is not enough to support him to calm down.
Then I will tell his father about this truth, and his father immediately said that I believe in this truth.
So you see the traditional Chinese medicine people we understand, how important it is to explain the truth to others clearly.
We want to tell the patient what logic is behind this disease.
The child will be cured after taking the medicine and will not twitch.
The second reason is that negative damage to yang energy. What does
mean?
Children with tic disorders are generally sensitive, or may suggest themselves, from this dimension how parents cooperate with the treatment.
He can remember any negative you say, no matter how small it is, he can immediately remember it. Children like
will suggest themselves and are negative self-suggestions.
For example, the exam is about to be taken, and the child will start to twitch immediately. Why?
He hinted himself: "Why didn't I prepare for the exam properly? If the results of my exams are not good later, it is because I am sick."
so he had to hint that he was sick.
From this we can see that negative hints damage the yang energy.
can twitch or is it because of insufficient yang energy. Negative hints damage yang energy. You must remember this sentence.
In life, including when school starts, the child will twitch more immediately;
When the parents and teachers criticized, the child will twitch more;
are the same truth, just like if you make me unable to play, I will make you difficult, and I will scare you to death when I get sick.
Give this example, can all doctors understand this meaning, right?
so that everyone can understand the most basic truth behind tics.
So let’s summarize why children suffer from tics?
On the one hand, it is because of the lack of yang in one's own body. Yang belongs to the dynamic and the main body of static. Any movement maintains a static state, and behind it is the yang that provides enough power.
Another aspect is that negative harms yang energy. Children with insufficient yang energy are more likely to perceive negative hints, and negative hints can hurt yang energy.
I have read a lot of pseudo-science posts online. What did they say?
They attribute the children's tics to the original sin of their parents. They say that children can perceive the negative energy transmitted by their parents is countless details of life, and parents' indifference and rejection, which makes children feel that they are being ignored.
The child’s expression ability is limited. He may not have vented it at that time, and it has accumulated in his heart. Over time, it has become a source of stress.
And these stresses become the source of tics.
Some parents have been successful in this pseudo-popular science PUA.
It is as cautious as if we do something that is harmful to the world. It is because we are wrong. We have done something bad and we are already trying hard to repent ourselves.
Oh my god, I was really angry when I saw it.
They only said that the child felt malice and then developed tics.
without saying why you can feel malicious.
Let me give you a simple example.
Xiaoyue final exam results did not get well, and my mother said, "It doesn't matter if I didn't get well this time. I believe you will get better next time."
What a normal child hears is: Mom is encouraging me, I just made a mistake, and I will definitely get well next time.
What the child heard was: Mom is blaming me for not doing well in the exam, she will not love me anymore.
see the difference?
It’s not that you did something wrong, but this child is more sensitive and more likely to receive malicious intentions from the outside world.
We parents can be cautious when talking to their children, but when they leave this home, will people on campus and in society still obey your children?
What should I do if the child is frustrated at this time?
So we should not only look at the watch, but look at the inside, just like traditional Chinese medicine to treat the root cause.
The standard configuration we encounter in clinical practice is a sick child with an anxious mother.
Moms have received too much information, and this expert, that big name, neighbor, and relative have too many voices around them, and most of them have asked them to review themselves.
But I want to tell all mothers: Actually, you have done a good job. Don’t blame yourself too much. Only when you relax your mindset can your child relax.
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has said so much, can Chinese medicine treat tics?
of course!
We will definitely use one medicine in the prescription for treating tics, which is aconite.
aconite to boost yang energy, so the amount of this medicine must be used large.
If all medical friends don’t understand it, I will tell you another case.
Two grandparents and grandchildren, and grandfather is the person who has done scaffolding in the heart.
People say that the heart has been stented, which means that this grandfather has a good heart?
, that must be bad, right?
Then when you hear that he is called grandfather, he can't be young, right?
This grandfather is a person who is a lot aged and older.
Both people need aconite to boost their yang energy, one is granddaughter and the other is grandfather. Which person should use more aconite?
At this time, doctors who have reacted will say that it may not be certain, it depends on who is serious?
So who is more serious to us in general?
Grandpa, because he is old.
However, in clinical practice, we encountered the real pair of grandparents and grandchildren, so I pointed the prescription to my grandfather: Old man, you see, you only use aconite so much, and your granddaughter uses so much aconite.
Why?
is actually severe because of the granddaughter.
Why is my granddaughter seriously ill?
Because this little girl is here to treat tics.
is because the yang belongs to the movement and the yang is insufficient.
is much more serious than grandfather.
Then slowly relies on this yang energy to arise throughout your life, and the child's tics will be cured.
If the child blinks, snorkeling, facial excitation, etc., you can take Jinkui Shenqi Pills first, which can be improved.
Of course, if the clinical situation is more complicated, please find traditional Chinese medicine for treatment as soon as possible.
