Question: How to deal with children's solid execution and negative attitudes?
Answer: Many parents will not regard their children's solid execution and negative attitudes as positive characteristics. However, for a child with slow development, this performance is absolutely positive, because this is a organized and planned behavior .
children with developmental disorders need to learn to show "purpose", so his angry "no" and "I don't want" and his rebellious ignorance are all manifestations of progress. He now clearly recognizes himself as an independent individual and tries to define himself.
We can use this resistance to introduce it into conversation and interaction, but the method must make it relaxed and progress step by step.
The child's negative performance will become the best opportunity to start and complete the communication cycle. If we stop the argument with our children by saying “yes” or “no” so quickly, we express our desires for our children and express ourselves in an organized manner creates a lot of opportunities for practice. And because he will debate with you under a strong mood, this kind of learning will be even more real.
Question: 1 Is there any problem with children entering school if they have weak social skills?
Answer: has.
Research shows that When people are supported by an intimate relationship, they will be healthier and happier. Emotional abuse is a terrible weapon, and people living in an atmosphere of rejection will feel frustrated and frustrated, and persistent rejection or prolonged rejection can even lead to an aggressive tendency.
Even if our children have a certain degree of social disorder, children can still feel the rejection and attacks of others, so active intervention is needed to improve children's abilities and integrate into the campus.
Question: When a child is one or two years old, there will be some vocabulary and simple phrases. What is the reason for the language to degenerate after he gets older?
Answer: In most cases, language degeneration actually represents the degeneration of social functions. If language degeneration occurs, parents should pay attention to the following points:
1. Try to take care of their children themselves, and keep high-frequency interaction with their children to create a good language environment for their children.
2. To save trouble, children can play with their mobile phones and watch TV by themselves! Most children who have language degeneration are caused by children playing with their mobile phones and watching TV. If you have to play with your mobile phone or watch TV, please accompany your parents and pay attention to interaction.
3. It is not recommended to implement "want your child to become a dragon" chicken-style education for children. At this stage, it is mainly about making children happy.
4. Do not send instructions to your children frequently and try to let them initiate the initiative.
Question: Need to wait until the child enters puberty before sex education ?
Answer: 1 does not recommend
We can 1 Help children with autism have the [pre-puberty] awareness . For example:
1. When the child is 7 years old or older, or earlier, only the same-sex parents can help take a bath.
2. Cultivate children to develop the habit of going to the toilet and taking a bath and closing the door well, so as not to be seen by the opposite sex. After going to the toilet and taking a shower, you must tidy up your clothes before coming out.
3. Parents should also consider their children's feelings at home, dress appropriately, and not expose their bodies at will.
4. When the child reaches 3 or 4 years old, he does not wear open-crotch pants, but wears complete pants.
Through daily life habits, a gender awareness is slowly formed in the hearts of children to understand honor and disgrace and shame.
Question: 1 Take a party with your children and relatives. Can I tell them the situation of their children truthfully?
0 21 Answer: 1 Recommended to inform them of their close relatives.
For relatives and friends who are familiar and close to us, truthfully informing our children's condition can reduce the psychological burden on parents, and on the other hand, they can gain their understanding and help for their children, be more tolerant in their interactions with their children, and more understand the aspects that need to be paid attention to, so as to avoid inadvertently hurting the children.
Of course, this is our suggestion. Whether it is necessary to inform us or to think and analyze according to the situation of each family.
