The clothes worn on the body also represent family background and self-confidence.
When we face strangers, the appearance is our personal business card. The first impression we leave on others is very important.
Including behavior, temperament expression, and even dressing up, all kinds of small details are related to the impression left on others. Many times you leave a bad impression on others, which makes you feel baffled.
It is often clothes that betray you.
Nowadays, the value of clothes is no longer to meet the simple requirement of body wrapping, but has gradually evolved into a representative and symbol of identity and status. Even many clothes are full of design, but they abandon the fundamental requirement of body wrapping.
Many people will choose clothes because of the brand. Even if they think the clothes are not worth the price, they will choose them without hesitation for their own vanity or face. Sometimes it is not a choice.
For example, when you go to a shopping mall to buy luxury goods, the store clerk will look at you from beginning to end. Her eyes are like a money detector, and the value of the accessories you wear directly affects their service attitude. After all, their services are also very expensive and precise.
There is another example closer to us, that is, when children go to school, the clothes they wear become an important tool for teachers to consider their children. If the child is wearing famous brands, the teacher will become very enthusiastic, but on the contrary, the teacher will be tepid.
Although not all teachers will be like this, there will still be fair and impartial teachers, but how can parents ensure that their children are facing competent teachers? If you take a little risk, the consequences will be very serious.
The clothes you give your children determine their future.
Clothes will give children confidence.
Even if teachers and adults do not make targeted evaluations of children, children themselves will have some ideas and discussions. After all, children from well-off families can know more brands and know the value of the other person's clothes, and then judge the other person's spending power and whether they are in the same circle as themselves.
In this way, those children who dress simply cannot integrate into the circle of high-consumption children. Being ostracized or looked down upon will invisibly overdraw their self-confidence and tolerance. Especially children who are in the rebellious period are prone to vanity.
They will even attribute this situation to their parents, thinking that their parents are too incompetent. Why should they be born into such a family? If they could do it over again, they would definitely be born into a wealthy family. As a result, in reality, they are picky and disdainful of their parents.
Dressing brightly is also a stepping stone.
Many parents will be very concerned about their children dressing up. They think that their main task is to study, and they must put all their thoughts on study. If one day their children love to be beautiful, parents will You will be very vigilant. Is your child falling in love early? Or maybe she has some little secret.
As a result, parents always have disputes with their children about dressing up every day. Some children compromise out of fear and obey their parents' instructions and wear whatever they want. Although this kind of change is what parents want to see most, it is actually very harmful to children.
Because from the moment they compromised, they had given up struggling, and even gave up all their ideas and started to mess up. Since parents are not allowed to make decisions by themselves, they have to let everything else go.
slowly develop this indifferent mood, and they themselves are the ones who suffer. When they get to work, they are very much required to learn to dress themselves up, and sometimes it is even required by the company. But they have already lost this ability, which has destined their lives to be difficult and unsatisfactory.
Neatness of clothes is more important
If the family conditions do not allow the child to wear gold and silver, it does not mean that the child is destined to fail in life. The most important thing at this time is to ensure that the clothes are neat, even if there is no perfume smell, the comfortable smell of laundry detergent It will also add points to their lives!
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