Once upon a time there was a prince
who wanted to marry a princess
There were many princesses
How can we tell that she is a real princess
One night
suddenly there was a terrible storm
At this time, someone was knock on the door
the old king goes Open the door
Standing outside the door was a princess
The old queen wanted to see if she was a real princess
So, she walked into the bedroom
and moved all the bedding away
and placed a pea on the bed
And Take out twenty mattresses
and press them on the peas
Then, on these mattresses
put twenty duck down quilts
The princess slept on this bed
The next day everyone asked her how she slept
The princess said
"It was so uncomfortable that I almost didn't sleep all night
There was a little thing on the bed that was very hard"
In this way, the king and queen judged
She was a real princess
Daily parenting experience
The subtlety of fairy tales is
no matter Both adults and children
can get their own insights from it
Today, after listening to "The Princess and the Pea "
you can talk to your children about the topic of "lies"
Fake princesses can never replace real princesses
Real things can't be fake, fake ones can't be It's not true.
And in the process of children growing up,
"lying" behavior is inevitable.
But what needs to be distinguished is the motivation for children to lie. Is it
choosing to lie in order to achieve a certain purpose of one's own? Then
parents should regulate their words and deeds in daily life
Otherwise, some wrong behaviors
will have some negative effects on children
When children lie,
Parents should not stand in the perspective of "judges"
Talk to children on an equal footing, and do not be condescending.
This will allow children to better understand their mistakes.
02
Be patient and understand the reasons why children lie
When children lie
Do not use rough means of beating and scolding
The first thing parents need to understand is
What are the reasons why children lie
Only after a clear understanding
can we rationally analyze the right and wrong of things
find The real cause of the problem
will better help children correct the bad habit of lying
03
Use stories to tell children that lying is wrong
Many stories talk about the importance of honesty
Telling children that lying is wrong
For example " wolf is coming" ć, "Pinocchio"
Parents can collect more stories
and tell them to their children
Use the story format that children like
and let them correct their own behavior
- Postscript -
Just because a child lies does not mean that
the child is innocent. The incorrigible bad boy
Parents should be good at identifying and guiding
children's lying behavior
Find the right way
To prevent children from developing the bad habit of lying
What parents need to do is
Donāt criticize or indulge your children blindly
But let the child know clearly
Even if he lies, his parents still love him very much
But lying is a bad thing