As parents, most of us hope that our children will become successful and our daughters will become successful! As a result, I hate that iron cannot become steel. Thus, the sub-education that deceives others, deceives oneself and deceives others began!
Raise an eagle that cannot fly, a wolf that cannot trap, a fox that is not cunning, and a fish that dare not leap over the dragon's gate. After a while, the child will dream of flying into the clouds and spreading its wings, with great hunting skills, smooth handling, and a leap. Dragon Gate! If you sow melons, you will reap beans if you sow melons. Whatever the cause, there is the effect. It is just a self-justification to say that children will grow up when they grow up!
The baby in the family, without Jia Baoyu 's life, developed Jia Baoyu's disease! Without the talent of Lin Daiyu , I am suspicious of Lin Daiyu! There is no Xue Baochai 's plan, learning from Xue Baochai's plan, Wang Xifeng 's cleverness, no Wang Xifeng 's madness, no Jia Tanchun 's vision, but Tanchun 's ambition...
The starting point of life is not to blame If you think about the height that your child enjoys now, you are wrong!
A child is a treasure in the palm of your hand. He is afraid of melting when held in his mouth, and afraid of falling off when held in his arms. However, is his destiny to take a walk in the gentle land? Without Jia Baoyu's life, Jia Baoyu's disease must not develop! If you don’t have the strength to hold out your hands and open your mouth, don’t overindulge! Destiny brings him to your side, to eat the hardships you have experienced and enjoy the sweetness you bring. You can let him climb on your shoulders, but you must not lift him up with both hands, it is dangerous! If you can't hold on for long, he will fall even worse! He should live the best life you can now!
no diamond , does not stop the porcelain work. It’s better to teach someone to fish than to teach him to fish!
Your child is not just your child, he is also a person, an individual! To be a person, an individual, you must be able to survive on your own! However, survival is a war, not a game! Once the game is over, you can start over again. The meaning of war is destructive and does not have the ability to be reborn! Then, war requires means, skills, wisdom, and vision... Therefore, you have to teach him your survival skills. This is real giving!
If you are an eagle, you should fly in the blue sky. If you are a fox, you should be cunning. A fox that is not cunning is humiliating. If you are a wolf, you must kill decisively. If you are a carp , you should be able to carp fight and jump over the dragon's gate. ! It’s just nature!
is the favorite thing for parents to do! Obsessive-compulsive disorder monitoring!
A foot is long and an inch is short. Educating children is not something that happens once or for a long time. It requires parents to set an example for a long time and establish correct values for their children! Looking younger at the age of three and looking older at the age of seven is an extension of the child’s nature and the influence of the parents! If you like things, you won’t feel tired, but if you don’t like things, you’ll feel annoyed with just one move! Education is no small matter. Everything you do is what you see in the eyes of your children, and more importantly, the children themselves! Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you. May you be loyal to yourself, and let your children be loyal to themselves and live happily!
When it's time to walk, boldly let go and let him go! When it's time to go to school, relax and let him go to kindergarten. He will always grow up and leave you. Going to school is the first step! Let him make his own choices, try not to interfere, and he can do it well!
What you have to do is try your best to help him get to where he wants to go. Remember, you can help him, but you cannot help him choose. The path is his own, and life is even more important. For such an important thing, parents must Learn to respect and protect!
