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Hello everyone, how are you planning your summer vacation?
Our second child’s extracurricular classes are already fully booked. He has signed up for swimming lessons, taekwondo classes, art classes, English classes that he has been taking, and online composition classes...
It’s not that he hopes his daughter will become a phoenix, just for Don't let her sit idle at home, otherwise you will have to battle wits with her every day.
After getting off work yesterday, I heard several mothers chatting in the elevator. They were all discussing what kind of training classes they should sign up for their children. They all had the same meaning. If they don’t let their children go to training classes, would they be irritated if they stayed at home?
Sure enough, parents all over the world are the same.
My mother-in-law also has a new arrangement. She takes care of Erbao very well at home on weekdays. The two of them often argue point-to-point, and neither of them admits defeat.
finally had a vacation, and her mother-in-law decided to stay at her daughter's house for a while.
Before the holiday, my mother-in-law announced this plan early and exaggeratedly said: I will leave tomorrow.
I originally thought that if I threatened the second treasure with this matter, the second treasure would be more obedient. But the embarrassing thing is that the second treasure would ask again every day when he comes back: Grandma, why haven’t you left yet? You keep saying that you will leave tomorrow, and tomorrow, tomorrow, and tomorrow. How many!
My mother-in-law finally left the day before yesterday.
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On the first day when my mother-in-law was not at home, Mr. Yang and I went to work in the morning and took Erbao to art class while Dabao did his homework at home and cooked rice in advance.
After get off work at noon, Mr. Yang hurriedly fried two dishes, probably without emotion, and the taste was really not good.
Dabao lamented that it was just as unpalatable as the food in their school.
Erbao came to the table and looked at it, and asked in disbelief: Are we going to eat this for lunch?
A plate of cabbage and a plate of lotus roots. There is a little meat in them. The lotus roots are fried until the color is no longer visible.
Usually when my mother-in-law is at home, she has at least three dishes and one soup, all delicious and delicious.
I told her: Grandma is not at home, so it would be nice to have something to eat. I should take my lunch break quickly and go to learn Taekwondo in the afternoon.
Erbao didn't say anything anymore. He poured some vegetable soup into the rice and finished it in a few mouthfuls.
Usually my mother-in-law is at home, and the two of them often quarrel because they think Erbao is slow to eat.
No one is arguing anymore, and the speed of Erbao is actually faster. The side effect was that when he got up from his lunch break to learn Taekwondo, Erbao had already begun to complain that he was hungry.
I was hungry until the evening.
Going to English class in the evening, Erbao suddenly said to Mr. Yang: Dad, grandma is not at home, we have to find a way to take care of the house.
Mr. Yang agreed and let her manage it how she wanted to.
She really figured it out and said to Mr. Yang excitedly: We can be just like in school. One person is on duty every day. The person on duty is responsible for other people. Whoever does not cooperate can be punished by the person on duty. .
Erbao's "official fanatic" nature is undoubtedly exposed.
She especially liked being an official. When she was in school, no matter what the teacher asked someone to do, she actively signed up. When she was a student on duty, she would show off for a long time.
Once the classmate who was in charge of hygiene was dismissed. The teacher said that anyone who wanted to be in charge could come to him. As a result, Erbao was the only one in the class who went to find it, and the teacher had no choice but to let her do it.
This incident shocked me for a long time, because Erbao was a little afraid of society and did not dare to tell the teacher anything. In order to become an official, she actually acted bravely.
Now, she is going to have a "official addiction" at home.
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Fortunately, Erbao still has some self-awareness. She knows that she is a humble person and cannot command her mother and sister. Basically, she can only be in front of her father. So after thinking about how to manage the house, she made a request to Mr. Yang and asked Mr. Yang to summon everyone. Got up for a meeting, Mr. Yang presided over it, and she explained the specific details.
It was almost 9 o'clock when they got home. We held a meeting very cooperatively. Erbao announced the duty system, and we helped her refine the process together:
First, from Monday to Sunday, four people took turns to arrange the schedule. class.
The person on duty is responsible for waking up, taking care of meals, taking care of discipline, and taking care of all family matters. If anyone is disobedient or eats too slowly, he will be punished by washing dishes or mopping the floor.
Every night everyone votes for the person who is on duty. If there are more than 2 votes, the person on duty can give himself a reward. If there are less than 2 votes, he will be criticized.
It was exactly 9 o'clock after the meeting. Mr. Yang suggested washing up early so that he could wash his clothes in the evening.
Normally, it is as difficult for Erbao to wash her as it is to kill her. She will dawdle in all kinds of ways. She will not do it for half an hour and will be yelled at more than a dozen times, and will not take action.
This time, I actually moved quickly. In half an hour, I took a shower and washed my hair.
It seems that as long as her "official addiction" is satisfied, she can say anything.
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The day after my mother-in-law left home happened to be Erbao’s duty. As soon as she hesitated, I would remind her: You are on duty today, can you take the lead?
She said "Okay, okay" and took action immediately.
She didn’t eat breakfast well, so I reminded her: Whoever finishes eating last will wash the dishes, as you said yesterday.
She was late in taking a lunch break at noon, so I reminded her: You are on duty today and you have to take the lead in taking a lunch break.
Whenever she performs poorly, I will remind her: do a summary at night and be careful not to pass the vote.
Haha, Erbao is completely controlled by his own rules.
She probably never dreamed that the rules she originally set to govern others would end up being used to govern herself.
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