Other family members continue to fly. But they found that their luggage was hung under the name of this mother. If this mother didn't take a plane, their luggage could not be followed.
However, even though each of them only brought one ID card, they still happily took the plane to discuss travel. No one would get angry or even complain.
So some people sighed: What a relaxing family.
After listening to this story, I remembered another story. It is said that the couple is waiting for the guests to go out for dinner together. As a result, only two guests came, and there were still two that would have to come later if they had something to do. But the time for dinner was almost here, so the husband decided that he would take these two guests to the hotel first, leaving his wife to wait for the other two guests.
Because the location of the hotel is a bit off, the husband asked his wife when he left, "Do you know how to go to drive? If someone (a customer) comes to drive, he knows to go." The wife said, "No, no, I know how to go." So the husband took the customer away.
Later, two other guests arrived, and his wife drove the guests to the hotel. As a result, my wife was confused and really didn't know how to go. The husband gave his wife a tip on the phone, but the wife went around and took many detours, and finally took more than an hour to get to the hotel. The two guests who went there were very nervous. They thought that there might be an embarrassing scene to face next. But who knew that when the husband saw his wife coming, he had no expression of unhappiness at all. He stood up with a smile and greeted the guests to sit down, and then said to his wife, "You are late, so let's eat first, and then order a few dishes." His wife was the same as usual, with the same expression, and happily ordered dishes and had a meal. The guests who went with
were very confused, but they thought: Maybe they are of high quality and will not quarrel in front of the guests. A few days later, the guest couldn't help asking the wife: "Will your husband scold you after he went back after dinner?" The wife said: "No, we won't be angry about such a trivial matter."
When I finished reading these two stories, I was also moved. In life, we are all used to giving the worst emotions to our family. If there is a little dissatisfaction, we will get angry and complain.
I think I want to be such a "slack" person. So I posted these two stories to my group and said, "We also want to become a family with a relaxed feeling. Now start with me. If you see me start to complain and blame me in the future, you must remind me."
My daughter gave me a big thumbs up at that time. I thought: I must change, just to set a good example for my children and to become a better self.
There is a saying that when parents change, your children will also change. That's true.
Today, my daughter and I rode an electric bike home. I just learned how to ride an electric bike, but my daughter was worried about me, so she let me ride in front of her. It was the peak period for get off work, and there were traffic on the streets. Because I was not very skilled in riding a bicycle, I followed the person in front of me and rode in the middle of two rows of cars. There was a traffic light in front of them, and these cars were parked here and waited for the green light.
I only realized that I shouldn’t ride like this when I rode in the middle, but it was too late and I couldn’t turn my head, so I could only ride over with my teeth. After passing the traffic light, I stopped by and waited for my daughter.
As soon as my daughter arrived, I saw her face stretching so long. Then I started to complain and accuse me: "I don't know what you think. I don't know how to ride a bike, but I still ride it in the middle of those bikes." I smiled and made a face at my daughter, and then said, "Lose, loose." When my daughter heard this, she finally smiled "Lose".
At that moment, I was so happy. We all practice in the world. When we become parents, we practice in the identity of "parents". If we get better because of our children, then our children will definitely get better too.
