Mothers advocate using diapers for their babies, thinking that this is more convenient and healthier; but grandma advocates urinating, thinking that the older generation raises babies in this way and can teach them to go to the bathroom early. Since the baby was born, the family has quarreled every day over this incident, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law once dropped to freezing point.
As a young mother, she prefers to scientific parenting. The reason why she uses diapers instead of diapers is because it has better effect; but from the perspective of her grandmother, she also loves her baby very much, but she thinks that the breathability of diapers is not good, which has an impact on the baby's reproductive health and skin.
As for the incident itself, there is nothing wrong with both mother and grandma. They are both loving their babies in their own way. However, they did not communicate well in advance, so family conflicts arise. Of course, this is also a true portrayal of many families, which is different from the concept of parenting and between the elderly.
Can babies actually get shit and pee? In fact, there is no accurate answer.
. Regarding this question, there is actually no standard answer yet. It’s just that science is constantly improving, and people’s parenting philosophy is also constantly improving. Diapers are the product of science.
From the perspective of the elderly, they said: Before there were diapers, many young parents born in the 1990s were grown up by the elderly, and they have been very healthy until now. Therefore, there is no error in terms of the behavior of stooling and urinating.
However, if the movements are not standardized during the operation, it may bring hidden dangers to the baby's health. As we all know, requires holding the baby's hip joint. Their bone development has not yet matured, and a slight inattention may cause bone injury.
From the perspective of young parents, it says: Whether it is from the perspective of health or convenience, diapers are rare and good items. Especially at night, the baby is sleeping in diapers, so he can not get up for several hours without having to get up at night, and parents can sleep peacefully.
Of course, diapers also have certain health risks, especially when they encounter babies with sensitive skin, they are prone to allergies and redness and swelling of private parts. Therefore, when choosing diapers for your baby, you must compare and not be greedy for cheapness. You should pay attention to the quality of the product and replace it regularly.
comes from mothers' complaints, this is the standard that should be referenced
Youyou Mom: During the 7th month of the year, I listened to the old man and had a behavior of scattering and urinating for two days, and finally ended in failure. After careful selection, I prepared NB diapers for my baby, not to mention how pleasant it is. Thinking about the scene where the baby cried while urinating, I really wanted to slap myself twice.
Qiqi's mother: As a mother of two babies, I really don't recommend that you keep shit and pee. In addition to being tired, it will be even more painful for the baby. Just imagine how can you feel comfortable when you put your baby's butt there? Moreover, the baby is completely uncooperative and does not perfectly "catch" their physiological needs.
In this way, young mothers actually prefer diapers because they are very convenient. Another thing is that shit and urine are indeed harmful, and no mother is willing to joke about the baby's health. Moreover, between taking shit and urinating, it is recommended to just take shit, after all, defecation is easier to form a pattern. Have you learned the details of wearing and taking off diapers?
1. Don’t lift your legs too high
Many mothers will lift their legs very high in order to facilitate putting on and taking off. This is the wrong operation method. You should know that the movements of babies with too high legs will affect their spine, and the safety risks of this movement are too great.
The best way is to spread the diapers flat and then gently put them on the baby's buttocks, and then you can perform the next operation. The whole movement should be like running water.
2. Please note that when changing the food in
Baby's food is not cheap, so many elders will be more saving and always think about waiting for the diapers to be stocked up before considering changing.In fact, frugality is not good for the baby's reproductive health. If the skin of private parts is closed in a humid environment for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be allergies, itching and red PP.
Therefore, diapers must be replaced in time. Mom can consider their own financial situation and choose a brand with a suitable cost-effectiveness. There is no need to pursue the so-called big brands.
3. Care during the replacement process should not be less than
When changing diapers, please cherish the short relaxation time and provide skin care for your baby in time. If conditions permit, wash directly with warm water, and then wipe the water stains with a soft tissue. No matter how bad it is, use a wet wipe to dip it in a small amount of warm water and gently wipe the surface of the skin.
If your baby has sensitive skin, you can apply safe ingredients to skin care products before wearing diapers to form a protective film on the surface of their skin.
is written at the end: The older generation’s parenting concept needs to keep pace with the times. After all, living conditions are good, and everyone hopes to raise children scientifically to provide a better growth environment for babies. The new generation of young mothers should also maintain a rational attitude and communicate slowly with the elderly in parenting.
