html When she was 33 years old, fate gave Liu Ximeng the worst card: her father left without saying goodbye, leaving her mother who could not take care of herself and her little girl...
▶ From the age of 3, she helped her mother dress, wash her face, Brushing her teeth, combing her hair... She went to kindergarten at the age of 4, and she has been going to and from school by herself
On February 26, 2022, Liu Ximeng, a junior student at Harbin Normal University, finished her online class, closed her laptop, and began to help the 51-year-old who was paralyzed in bed. Mother Wang Yanchun massages acupuncture points and stretches her limbs. This is another "required course" for Liu Ximeng after studying.
Liu Ximeng was born in Zhaoyuan County, Daqing City, Heilongjiang Province in April 2001. Shortly after her birth, her mother suffered from severe rheumatoid arthritis, which soon developed to severe deformation of her hands and feet and general muscle weakness. She was paralyzed in bed and found it difficult to take care of herself. On the hundredth day after she was born, she was sent to her aunt's house, where she took care of her. She was not returned to her mother until she was 3 years old. After that, there was no news from her father who went out to work, and she and her mother had to live on subsistence allowances.
Since the age of 3, Liu Ximeng has taken on the important task of taking care of her mother. She helps her dress, wash her face, brush her teeth, comb her hair every day, and sometimes breaks the steamed buns into pieces and feeds them to her mother. When she was 4 years old, Liu Ximeng started going to kindergarten and has been going to and from school by herself.
"In the beginning, relatives would come over in the morning to prepare meals for us for the day. I would write down the steps beside them, and when it was time to eat, I would pour them back into the pot and heat them up." Liu Ximeng recalled that at that time, she couldn't reach the pot and could only step on it. He sat on a small stool and leaned on the pot table to heat the rice. But her relatives also had their own things to do and couldn't come over every day, so she started learning to cook.
The little person, stepping on a small stool, added water to the pot, added seasonings, and noodles under the command of his mother... The way Liu Ximeng cooked for the first time is still imprinted in her mother's mind: "Lie down I learned to cook on the pottery, and then learned how to cook. I didn’t know how many times I was burned, which left scars on my face.”
But for Liu Ximeng, the most difficult thing about taking care of her mother is not cooking, but helping. Mom goes to the toilet. It is almost impossible for a person who cannot stand to squat to go to the toilet. When she lived in a bungalow, the toilet was outside, so Liu Ximeng put a plastic bag on the bucket so that her mother could use the toilet in the house.
In 2012, the mother and daughter moved into a low-rent house arranged by the local government. There is a toilet in the building, which makes Liu Ximeng very happy. But while using it, she encountered another difficulty - the bathroom door was too narrow and the wheelchair couldn't get in. Later, she thought of a way to use a wheelchair to push her mother to the bathroom door, then transfer her to a wooden stool, use the stool to push her mother into the bathroom, and then carry her to the toilet.
During this process, mother and daughter often fell together because they could not hold their mother. In order to prevent her mother from being injured, Liu Ximeng always used her thin body to bear the impact when the stool fell down, and her legs, feet, and arms were often bruised and bruised from the impact. The mother feels sorry for her daughter and often sheds tears behind her back.
Liu Ximeng comforted her: "It is only natural for me to take care of you. You dragged your illness and risked death to bring me into this world. Without you, where would I be?"
▶ After school, she was always the first A "rush" out of school, taking care of her mother while studying hard
When Liu Ximeng was in the third grade of elementary school, the school was more than three miles away from home. In order to prevent her mother from going hungry, Liu Ximeng would make enough meals for her mother for two meals in the morning, and put the lunch meal next to her mother's bed before going to school. After school in the afternoon, she is almost always the first one to "rush" out of the campus.
Heard that massage could relieve her mother’s pain. Liu Ximeng learned Chinese massage when she was 10 years old. She used her young hands to rub, point, press and press her mother’s acupuncture points for about 20 minutes every day. She was often so tired that she was sweating all over.
After several years of persistence, my mother was finally able to take a few steps with the help of external force. To this day, Liu Ximeng still insists on massaging her mother every day. Now she knows the massage strength of each acupuncture point very well.
In the face of a difficult life, Liu Ximeng is always optimistic and sunny.
In the eyes of her neighbors, she can not only handle housework independently, but also help her neighbors with many things, such as repairing toilet seats and cleaning range hoods... Liu Ximeng is very good at everything she does. At school, Liu Ximeng studied well and was enthusiastic about her classmates. She was elected by her classmates as a publicity committee member of the Youth League branch and served as a Chinese class representative.
In 2016, Liu Ximeng was admitted to Zhaoyuan County No. 1 Middle School with excellent results. After entering the third year of high school in 2018, Liu Ximeng was busy preparing for the exam and taking care of his mother. Every minute, Liu Ximeng wanted to break it in half and use it - 5 in the morning Get up at 0 o'clock to prepare breakfast, take the first bus to school, get home at 11 o'clock in the evening, massage my mother until 12 o'clock and then go to bed. On the way to and from school, Liu Ximeng would take out his books and read them, never wasting any time.
Liu Ximeng’s efforts were noticed by many people. In the first week of her senior year of high school, her head teacher called her to the office and told her that the school had decided to waive all her tuition and fees. A few days later, she found that there was another 500 yuan in her meal card.
This "surprise" of being paid on time every month lasted until the end of the college entrance examination. "Later I found out that it was Principal Xu who had been helping me silently." The "Principal Xu" Liu Ximeng mentioned was Xu Yonggang, the principal of Zhaoyuan County No. 1 Middle School. This moved Liu Ximeng greatly.
Thinking back to that winter night in his senior year of high school, Liu Ximeng still has lingering fears. After school at 10:30 every night, she would always call her mother on the way home. But that day was unusual. She called several times but no one picked up the phone. When she got home, she found that the aunt next door was helping her clean the house.
The aunt told her that her mother suddenly fell ill, trembling all over, vomiting and diarrhea. She got better after taking medicine and just fell asleep. In order to avoid another accident, Liu Ximeng decided to take her mother to college in the future.
"I failed to fulfill my responsibilities as a mother. Instead, I became a burden to my children and deprived them of their childhood and youth. I feel sorry for her!" When talking about her daughter, Wang Yanchun burst into tears.
Liu Ximeng said while wiping her mother's tears: "Mom, I can't live without you. You living well is more important than anything else. Only with you here can I have a family. I have no regrets in taking care of you! Everything will be fine." "
▶ Taking her mother to college, she said: "After completing my undergraduate studies, I will take the postgraduate examination. No matter where I go, I will take my mother with me."
In July 2019, Liu Ximeng was successfully admitted to Harbin Normal University. Before going to college, someone suggested that she send her mother to a nursing home, but she refused without thinking: "My mother can't live without me, and I can't live without my mother!" So, Liu Ximeng took her mother to college without hesitation. .
Liu Ximeng pushed her mother in the wheelchair, took crutches and luggage, and settled her mother before completing the check-in formalities.
"Before the school started, teachers from Harbin Normal University contacted me and learned that I would take my mother to school. The school approved my application for day study and also provided me with a lot of help in daily life." After going to college, In order to take care of her mother more conveniently, Liu Ximeng rented a house in a community not far from the school and started a new life with her mother.
In addition to going to school and taking care of her mother every day, Liu Ximeng also works two part-time jobs: one in a tutoring class and one in the school cafeteria. In addition, she also served as the class secretary and student union cadre. She was very busy every day, but she loved such a fulfilling life.
School started in September 2020, and Liu Ximeng will be a sophomore. In order to participate in social practice, she returned to school alone more than ten days in advance.Liu Ximeng said that due to social practice, she leaves early and returns late. She has no time to take care of her mother, so she can only send her mother to her grandmother's house and ask relatives to take care of her.
After the social practice, Liu Ximeng planned to go back to her hometown to pick up her mother the next day. Unexpectedly, several senior students acted ahead of her and drove more than 300 kilometers to pick up her mother directly. She said that her seniors helped her a lot. When she had classes or work, they often came to her home to deliver meals to her mother.
When she was a freshman, Liu Ximeng used her spare time as a tutor to supplement her living expenses. Later, due to the COVID-19 epidemic and other reasons, she could no longer work as a tutor, so an older sister at the school cafeteria provided her with the opportunity to work part-time.
Liu Ximeng said: "My eldest sister is a very good person. When I go home every day, she asks me to bring two meals home to eat with my mother." During the summer vacation of his freshman year, experts from the First Affiliated Hospital of Harbin Medical University also came to Liu Ximeng The small house rented by the mother and daughter specially conducted a physical examination for Wang Yanchun, formulated a rehabilitation training plan for her, and provided her with some medicines. This surprised Liu Ximeng.
"In order to make my mother's life better, I am studying and working at the same time." Liu Ximeng said that she plans to be a teacher in the future.
asked her why she wanted to be a teacher, and she recalled with gratitude: "When I was in junior high school, on the day of registration, all the other students went to get their school uniforms, and I was the only one in the class who didn't go. After Teacher Li learned about my family's situation, he didn't care at all. He told me without hesitation that I would not have to pay for the school uniform. I was really touched at the time. To other children, a set of school uniforms was nothing, but to me, it was just a lot of money to buy medicine for my mother. Let her relieve some pain. From then on, the teacher became more concerned about my study and life, and took the lead in setting up a fund for me when my mother had a femoral head replacement surgery. Teacher Li and the principal also reached out immediately. Help. I kept everything they did in mind, and I made up my mind at that time to be a teacher in the future, to pass on the love and repay the society.
In the eyes of Shi Xufu, a counselor at the Eastern Languages School of Harbin Normal University. Here, Liu Ximeng is a more mature and sensible child than her peers: "Although this child is usually so tired, her professional results are always among the best: other students choose 10 courses, but she chooses 13; others can complete it in 4 years." She completed the second class credits in just one and a half years. "As soon as she entered her freshman year, Liu Ximeng submitted an application for party membership and actively moved closer to the party organization. In March 2021, Liu Ximeng became a glorious probationary member of the Communist Party of China as he wished.
In the past few years, Liu Ximeng has been awarded the honorary titles of "National Upward-looking Youth", "Touched Longjiang Person of the Year", and "Star of Self-improvement of Chinese College Students". With her strength, she found the light that warmed life, and she also made herself the light that shined on her miserable mother, and lived a respectable life.
Faced with her daughter's progress, Wang Yanchun was both happy and guilty: "If I didn't drag her down, Mengmeng would have a greater future! I hope she will become a person who contributes to society and is useful to society."
Regarding this, Liu Ximeng was sweet Said: "Today's life is getting better and better. My mother's health has also improved and she can walk with crutches. After completing my undergraduate studies, I will take the postgraduate entrance examination. No matter where I go, I will take my mother with me." "
In November 2021, Liu Ximeng, a junior in college, learned that he was named the 8th National Moral Model . He smiled shyly: "When my mother is here, I have a home. I take care of my mother. I just do Something a daughter should do.”
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Author: Xiyao
Editor: Zhuang Qingqing
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