In life, we often hear the saying: "If you raise a son if you are poor, you will raise a daughter if you are rich." Therefore, many parents invest a lot of money in raising their daughters and give them endless material satisfaction. But is this kind of enrichment really good for children? What does it mean to be truly “rich”? Let’s take a look at it together.
First of all, to enrich your daughter’s vision and knowledge, take your children out for more walks and let them read more books.
My friend Ms. Liu is a high school teacher and her daughter is in first grade this year. While other parents kept enrolling their children in tutoring classes during the holidays, Ms. Liu and her husband took their daughters to Beijing and Shanghai for a series of trips. When Ms. Liu was chatting two days ago, I asked her: "Why don't you take advantage of the holidays to tutor your children?" Ms. Liu replied: "Children will naturally understand what should be done, what should not be done, and when Should do”.
It can be seen that Ms. Liu's education for her children is very different from other parents, and she pays more attention to the growth of her children's horizons. There is a saying that hearing is worse than seeing. When children see this rich and complex society, they can form a fixed mindset to view the world, making it easier to find their own goals in life. At the same time, children can also get to know more people and things, which is good for learning. Therefore, expanding one's horizons is one aspect of raising a daughter richly.
Secondly, give your daughter enough love instead of "spoiling".
Huanhuan is in the second grade of elementary school this year. She is the only daughter in the family. Her family treats Huanhuan like a little princess. Grandma dresses Huanhuan, combs her hair, and even breastfeeds her every day. Two days ago, the school held a summer camp and organized children to go to the countryside to study and work together. However, Huanhuan could not get dressed by herself in the morning, and she had to ask the teacher for help when eating.
It can be seen that Huanhuan was completely unable to take care of himself after being separated from the care of his family. Sufficient love can cultivate a sense of security in children, so that they will not lose themselves because of small favors from others in later life. But doting will only make children suspend their lives in an overly comfortable environment, preventing them from truly growing up and taking care of themselves. Therefore, parents' love must be moderate in order to truly enrich their daughters.
In general, the "rich" of raising a daughter rich refers to the child's psychological and spiritual richness. Parents should think about what their children lack from the perspective of their children. Implicitly using money to satisfy their children can easily lead to their children establishing wrong values.
Vision and knowledge are always the greatest source of confidence for children. Parents should be committed to cultivating their children's abilities and at the same time allowing them to see the wider world so that they can better face their own lives and realize their own value.
