One day, Dudu's mother and Xiaoge's mother accompanied their children to the amusement park. Watching the two children running around happily in the amusement park, Dudu's mother said to Xiaoge's mother: "Your little Gezhen Lively, running fast, and courageous.” Xiao Ge’s mother was happy in her heart and replied: “Well, my child is in good physical condition, likes outdoor activities, and rarely gets sick.”
As a result, it only took two days. , Xiao Ge had fever and cough. He went to the hospital twice and got a drip. He didn't go to kindergarten for a week.
Many parents have experienced it, that is, children do not praise and cannot praise. For example, when I first mentioned that the child is in good health, and basically did not get sick, it was not a week before the child started to have a high fever, and it took a long time to get better.
every time I just say something like "the child is in good health recently", just halfway through the sentence, relatives and friends shook their heads and waved at you mysteriously, and solemnly warned you: you can Don't say that!
Some time ago I just wrote an article about "Standing flag". This is confirmed by many events in our lives, so we can't talk nonsense!
Everyone is inevitably curious-why is this happening? Why does the child get sick when he praises the child? Is there really a mysterious power surrounding us?
One way of saying is " law of attraction " in negative energy attraction ,As the saying goes, "what you are afraid of comes from", it intuitively describes the result of this negative energy attraction. This concept means that we live in the material world, and at the same time live in various invisible energy fields. Matter and energy together form our world, but energy is invisible but exists. Just like WIFI, we can't see it, but it really exists, and it is still indispensable for us. Just like what we say in Chinese medicine or martial arts movies " ".
is just like the famous psychological test " pink elephant ", I told you not to think about a pink elephant all the time. The look of an elephant. When you say that your child is in good health, your mind will naturally remember that your child should never get sick, and then you will invisibly attract bad energy.
We really cannot prove whether there is a scientific basis for this statement, but the following two factors cannot be ignored:
1, psychological reasons.
In fact, many children's occasional illnesses are to improve immunity. After getting sick, the germs in the body are almost eliminated, and the immunity is also improved. Many children have not caught a cold or fever for a long time, and various germs have naturally accumulated in the body. When the immune system reaches a critical value, the disease will come. When some children haven’t been sick for a long time, in fact, the children have reached the critical point of being sick.It just so happened that the parents said that the child is in good health, and the child is sick, and the gap at this time will be remembered by the parents.
2, negligent care.
When a child has not been ill for a long time, parents form a concept: the child is healthy and not easy to get sick. In the details, he slowly neglected to take care of the child. The child is easily invaded by bacteria and will become sick at this time.
