is fortunate to be loved. Fearless mountains and seas
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is born in the family. It can be said that it can affect a person's life.all say that children don't understand anything when they are young, but in fact, children are often the smartest. In a family, the life attitude of the relatives and the behavior of others will have a subtle influence on the children.
Children who do not feel love in family relationships will become more sensitive.
Children's three views are formed under the influence of the family.
A loving family, children will be sunny.
In a family that quarrels all day long, children tend to feel inferior and not confident.
A family with a learning atmosphere, children will be humble and polite.
In an unreasonable family, children will become unruly.
In many cases, the pride of a child comes from the love of the native family. If children grow up in a loving family,Then the child can live more wanton and colorfully.
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Disharmony in family relations can cause great psychological harm to children.
The most popular drama " " has almost swept the entire circle of friends. Everyone discusses who the real behind-the-scenes is, but they ignore the other victim in the play, "Sun Xing." ".
Everyone may think that he did a lot of evil and deserved it.
In my opinion, he is just a poor man who is abandoned by his parents and has never felt the warmth of his family since he was a child.
Sun Xing has been despised since he was born. His mother felt ashamed of him, and his father did not dare to admit his birth.
A child who has been stocked since childhood, his parents are undoubtedly the biggest murderers.
One blindly indulges, only nurtures without education, and the other only has benefits, and is cold-faced at all times. No one has ever told him what to do and what not to do.
A child who has lacked love since childhood becomes distorted and feels that he is superfluous, thus becoming rebellious. , And finally embarked on the path of crime. They think that maybe only in this way can they get a little attention from their relatives.
Sun Xing is undoubtedly hateful but also sad.
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People nowadays are struggling to make money,It presupposes that it is necessary to give the children the best educational conditions.
Actually, really don't have this wrong perception.
Some time ago, I always saw some news about foreign students returning to China, as if putting the title of a foreign student in a certain country would make them feel superior and inhumane to slander their country.
Good education conditions are good, but they don’t necessarily teach a physically and mentally healthy child.
The saddest thing about a family is that parents have no principles, keep giving in, give everything, and finally raise children who are not grateful.
Not long ago, there was a piece of news: an adult man was lying on the ground and rolling around.
The reason turned out to be that his father refused to agree to buy him a car. He first beat and scolded his parents and then lay down on the road.
However, this is not the first time he has threatened his father.
When I bought a notebook at the beginning of the year, I was lying on the road. That time, my father compromised.
So this time I want to repeat the trick again.
On language: the son does not teach, the father and son pass.
It is because the parents are spoiled time and time again, the bottomless spoiling will raise children who don't understand gratitude.
When you lie on the ground and act like a baby when you are two or three years old, everyone will find it cute; when you are in your twenties and thirties, you will find it ridiculous.
Tsinghua talented girl Wu Yishu 's mother said a word:
"Genius does not exist in the family, and its reason is in the family." Excellent children don’t need to preach, what do you want your children to be, first of all, what do you want to be.
Home is a warm place,Because there is love.
Matter can be lacking, but love can fill the missing part of our heart.
It is our ideal to give our children a warm and loving family.
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