One hour before going to bed is the best time for us to spend time with our children.
During the day on weekdays, it is difficult for us to accompany our children. Our daily relationship with the children is actually the time from going home to going to bed, and then from waking up to going to work.
Not to mention that sleeping time is also companionship. Everyone is sleeping a lot. It can only be said that everyone's physical distance is relatively close. It doesn't make any sense to talk about company without interaction.
Once the sleep time is taken out, we will find that the time we spend with our children every day is so short. Therefore, it will be very meaningful if we can do a good job of the hour before the child goes to bed.
once heard from a friend that the first thing she did when she went home was to put her mobile phone at the door, and then she would not pick it up again until she left the next morning.
She strictly separates work and life, and spends enough time home to accompany her children. Of course, we have to admire her perseverance, which may not be possible for many of us.
But why not take it out for an hour? One hour is always okay! Put down your phone, put down your work, put down everything, and be dedicated to your child.
Many people would say, do children use us to accompany you? Don't they play by themselves?
But whether you have our company is really different. Being together will at least make you in the world of children and children in your world.
What do you do with your children? Many people will be confused when they let go of everything and accompany their children.Children’s games are a bit boring. We may not want to play with them. We think it lowers our IQ. We think everything is naive and boring.
Actually think about what is boring? Do we just talk at work? Don’t we talk on mobile phones?
Don’t be bored or naive. In fact, many of the things we do are meaningless, and we just take the most meaningful company as boring.
is a parent, we don't have to carry it all the time, we can let ourselves go, we can play and fight with the children, we can climb high and low with the children, we can play pranks with the children.
I remember a friend once shared that he competed with his children at home every day. The parent-child time was very colorful, and both he and the child were greatly satisfied.
Maybe many years later, children will still remember these good times. Looking back on our childhood, most of those good and happy memories are childish happiness.
is to develop the habit of reading books before going to bed. We can read stories to them or let them read stories to us. Stories are very attractive to children. In order to arouse their interest, children can also choose books by themselves.
In order to organize children's picture books and books, so that they can read books easily. We bought a new bookshelf in our child’s bedroom. We assembled the bookshelf together, and we put the books together. I hope we can practice reading before going to bed!
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