Three children went to the zoo with their mothers. After seeing the lion in the cage, the children reacted differently. The first one hid behind her mother, kept retreating, and said to her mother: I want to go home, the second one was pale and trembling, saying: I am not afraid at all, and the third one looked fierce to the lion and said: Can I spit at him?
behind the behavior of the three children, there is inferiority complex . In fact, in our lives, not only people with mental illnesses have inferiority complex, but everyone has inferiority complex , because we always have some aspects that are not satisfactory. There are many forms of inferiority complex, or self-deception, seeking a sense of superiority, or weakness and retreating, and needing a sense of security.
Behind any behavior that overrides others, there is a kind of inferiority complex that needs to be hidden. People with severe inferiority complex will not be calm and kind. By observing a person's behavior, you can see the inferiority behind him. For example, a speaker with too many gestures has a sense of inferiority in his heart for the effect of his words, so he will constantly use gestures to emphasize the importance of his words.
points out inferiority complex and emphasizes inferiority complex. People with inferiority may not admit that they will deceive themselves through various methods and seek inner superiority, but these will only make them more inferior; they may always say that they are inferior, which is also a purpose behind this, either to find reasons for their inaction, or to seek understanding from others and obtain more support and help from others.
Only by taking action to change can we break the vicious circle of self-deception.
In fact, we all know in our hearts that it is impossible to make money easily and quickly, but many people still can't resist the temptation and want to seek shortcuts. For example, when operating a headline, too many people are promoting the promotion of making quick money by relying on a hit micro headline or short video. If you look closely, you will find that many of them are just riding on hot topics, stimulating people's attention, or arousing people's strong emotions, but there are not many things that are truly of quality.
Many people get close to psychology because of their inferiority complex, but because of their rush to achieve success, they fall into the vicious circle of becoming more and more anxious as they learn. They hide in the pit of psychology just to escape their laziness. In fact, learning psychology is the most "expensive" one. Firstly, because of its scarcity, few people who can truly learn and apply it, can use it to change themselves and improve the relationship between others; secondly, because of its long-term nature, psychology is a science that requires a lot of time and requires technology and practice. It is not only your understanding of others, but also your relationship with others, but more importantly, your relationship with yourself.
I now regard Toutiao and psychology as my side job, and I can only do this. The main business is still the main source of my money. This way of main business + side job allows me to work and live down-to-earth.
