The reasons behind every teenager's suicide are regrettable, campus violence, family relationships, depression , overload pressure exerted by parents... The reasons behind the withering of every flower in the motherland should be reflected on. Yuna in the TV series " Female Psychologist " is unable to bear the deformed family relationship, and even tried to win back her parents' feelings many times by self-harm, and eventually went to suicide. Fortunately, Yuna was saved by a psychological counseling expert, but who will save every child in our lives who suffers psychological torture?
At present, the human world is developing rapidly, the world is getting faster, but people's psychological problems have become more, and the psychological problems of teenagers cannot be ignored. At present, the proportion of suicides in China is the highest in the world, with primary and secondary school students accounting for 26.7% of the depression, etc. More and more teenagers are falling into depression, suicide, and psychological collapse. These are not just complaining without illness. These teenagers are truly feeling these pains. The reasons behind these pains include learning pressure, campus violence, family relationships, etc. All of this should be paid attention to.
As a teacher,
What can we do for the mental health of teenagers?
1. Pay attention to every student
Every student is eager to be paid attention to. Their fragile emotions are eager to be relieved. Sometimes just a look and a word of care can bring them strength. Teachers are a noble profession, and they also bear heavy responsibilities. Pay attention to every student who can lend a helping hand in time when their dangerous emotions arise.
2.Learn psychology Knowledge
Before becoming a teacher, every teacher had already learned the content of psychology, but it is far from enough to deal with psychological problems in the growth of adolescents. We should pay more attention to cases in this regard, learn how to communicate with children with psychological problems, and learn how to help them when they collapse.
3. Strengthen home-school communication
In the process of educating children, schools and families are not two parallel lines, but should be integrated with each other and jointly promote the healthy growth of children. In the TV series "Female Psychologist", the reason for Yuna's suicide is on the surface caused by conflicts with her classmates, but after peeling off the cocoon, you will find that the real cause of her suicide and a series of extreme behaviors is the family relationship that makes her collapse. Therefore, to understand a child, you must understand his family and growth environment. Teachers and parents should strengthen communication and jointly protect the mental health of teenagers.
4. Promote psychological intervention in a timely manner
After discovering students' psychological problems, they must respond in a timely manner. First, communicate and guide. If the situation is serious, they must communicate and promote psychological intervention in a timely manner and do not give up on every student.
Pay attention to the mental health of adolescents, and everyone is responsible. This is not a simple slogan, but something that each of us needs to practice. Teachers are even more responsible. Every teenager may encounter various psychological problems during the growth process. Whether it is a sense of social responsibility or the mission given to us by the profession of teachers, we are in a face that we have no choice but to help these children.
Focus Q&A
Q: What should students do if they have depression?
A: Report to the school in a timely manner and contact the psychology teacher to provide consultation and tutoring to parents and children. Communication with all subject teachers, reduce the learning requirements for the student, and treat students with a tolerant attitude. Communicate with parents and remind parents to pay attention to their children at all times. Talk to the students with a peaceful and respectful attitude, tell them that they are just sick and will soon get better with treatment, give them a sense of security, and cooperate with psychologists for treatment.
Q: What should I do if my parents have too high requirements and my students have psychological collapse?
A: First, we must stabilize students' emotions, and then communicate with parents about their children's situation, persuade parents to change their educational philosophy and how they get along with their children, help parents repair their relationship with their children, and help their children regulate psychological stress with their parents.
Q: What should students do if they suffer from campus violence?
A: Campus violence must be strictly stopped, timely report it to the school, and contact parents of both parties to negotiate and handle it, provide psychological counseling for students suffering from violence, criticize and educate students who commit violence, and carry out anti-campus violence publicity activities on campus to help students shape correct values.
