For example, although life is good, I am getting older and older. Then I look at my face. There are more and more wrinkles on it and there are a lot of white hair on my head, and then I feel unhappy. In this case, if you find something and quarrel with others, the discomfort caused by seeing yourself getting older can be relieved. It means that our attention is no longer here, and we are fully focused on quarreling with others, which is called forgetting that we are about to be old.
or some people are too bored and do nothing every day, which is so boring. They feel that they are almost embarrassed and decayed. At this time, if you have a fight, something happens, or a little conflict, it seems that people are excited again, energetic again, and live again. So is not happy, but in fact it can have some functions , so sometimes people really need to find irritation.
But someone thought about it, if you are just bored, or if you have something in your heart that makes you upset, can't you find something happy? Right? Look at the other person Confucius , they learn and think, and then they are happy and forget their worries, not knowing that old age is coming. Alas, he also wants to reduce his worries about "oldness is approaching", but people do some positive, happy, valuable things that are good to themselves and others.
is if you are looking for trouble, why not find something good? Another problem here exists, which is a good thing. Relatively speaking, it requires some internal and external conditions. For example, learning is a good way to make people forget to get old and make people not bored. However, if you want to use learning method and to find such things, you must first have the ability to learn. You have to like learning, and you have to be willing to think. If you have been confused since childhood, skipped classes every day since elementary school, went to bed after class, and felt a headache when you read books, then you will definitely not use this method to solve your problem. You won't look for such a thing.
Of course, you can also find some relatively neutral things, such as playing mahjong. So why do some elderly people spend a lot of time playing mahjong?
In fact, this is also a way to keep them healthy mentally. If you don't let him play mahjong and you have to stay at home, maybe he will look for family affairs, he will find fault, he will quarrel with others, and he will have conflicts with his children. Rather than doing this, let him play mahjong, because there is a ready-made thing and he will not look for anything else.
The earliest Confucius saw that some of his disciples didn’t like to study. Confucius also suggested this, saying, “Oh, if you really don’t like to study, you can just play chess, right? It’s always better to spend time.”
Yes, people cannot be free of things. They either do good things, do neutral things, or find some troubles to do bad things. So, we should try our best to cultivate some good hobbies and enable ourselves to do some good things.
What I am talking about today refers to those who are fine. If you are very busy at work and busy all night in the morning, then you don’t have to worry about nothing to do, and you don’t have to worry about what I’m talking about today.
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