I have a son with autism, so I wanted to kill him for a long time.
10 has not looked at people since the beginning of 010 months, and the focus will always be on the ceiling and LED advertising screens.
1 years old and 3 months old took him to Beijing Children's Hospital . The doctor said he was too young to go to the institution, so he should be tutoring! But how do I teach? There was no response at all... I went to , Peking University Sixth Hospital , and found Dr. Jia Meixiang. After observing alone for a while, the conclusion was that the child was still young. No matter whether it was right or not, if he found that it was abnormal, he would intervene!
So we embarked on the arduous path of institutional intervention. The institution lasts from less than 2 weeks to 3 and a half weeks. It is extremely hard to take care of the baby alone, and every day is like fighting. I got up in the morning to cook, steamed rice at noon and cut it into pieces, then took the baby to eat, ran to the institution and started jumping balls, skateboarding, and did sense training. 1,000 balls a day have trained my arms and muscles. I accompanied my class in the morning and rushed back to cook after school. I didn’t care about washing the bowl and coaxed my son to have lunch break. Then I went to the institution. When I came back for dinner in the afternoon, I reviewed what the teacher taught during the day... I spent money and energy, but the reward was very small. During that time, I had problems with my psychology, probably because of depression.
Sometimes I complain about God’s unfairness, and sometimes I wonder if it’s a punishment for stealing other people’s homework books when I was in school, having early love, and being rebellious. Sometimes I feel that I should accept my fate, and sometimes I think that I am open-minded and it doesn’t matter. At worst, I can keep it. He also placed his hopes on the gods, and went there for three consecutive years.
When the first time a "ah" sound was made from his mouth, I cried to his training teacher on the spot.
is so humble that it is unimaginable that his son has never spoken, never. The first time someone said, you, he actually did it! Ecstasy and eager to jump up. It's so happy to prove that my son can speak.
Teachers thought he might have no words for life (I have been crying here, I haven’t shed tears for a long time, I really feel sorry for myself at that time)
Facts have proved that early intervention is really useful. At least my son has been 7 weeks old now. He can actively express his needs, take care of himself, and write, but his logical thinking is quite poor, and he has never understood what is going on with addition and subtraction.
suddenly became super brave. I didn’t dare to go down the stairs before, but now I jumped directly to the ground through 4 steps, jumping around every day, turning into hyperactivity and autism. When I was happy, my mouth couldn't control myself and started to scream. Now we are used to it. I cried endlessly when I was not satisfied, and I burst into anger every time. Then I had to hold him gently and coax him, "Baby, I'm sorry, mom's fault." My son would slowly stop when he heard my tone softening. It's crazy. Sometimes my outburst is just in a moment, and I want to strangle him to death. I can't help but sometimes when I think of him lying there and unable to move, I lose my breath and die, I can't help crying. Maybe one day I will be driven crazy.
institutions came out together. Some children can go to normal primary schools, and some even wear diapers when going out. We are of the intermediate type. It is not particularly bad, but it is not much better. If you can't keep up with the ordinary primary schools, you may be even worse when you send special education. I can only take one step at a time, and I dare not think or think.
This year, I plan to get him an disability certificate . Although I haven't been to the hospital for several years and have not received a confirmed diagnosis so far, my child knows that whether the diagnosis is or not is just a piece of paper, so I won't go there without any need.
I dare not think about the future path. When I have a second child, I feel that I am selfish and cannot burden the second child. I discuss with my husband that after a hundred years, the other person will take his son with me. When my daughter grows up, I will tell her that it is the parents’ business of my brother, and you can just live your own life.
Just like that, I'm so tired. God chose us for a reason, right? As long as he is happy and healthy, it will be fine.What else can be done? Life has to continue!
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saw the push and vented his emotions. I didn’t expect so many people to encourage me, understand me, and enlighten me. I was really touched, very touched!
Someone asked what's going on with autism? Innate or acquired? Can B ultra- be found?
In layman's terms, it is caused by damage to a certain brain neuron, which is congenital, and cannot be detected during the fetus. Most of them are accompanied by developmental delay and mental retardation (a large part). Some have good abilities and can have language, but social interaction disorders are common problems for all children with autism.
Tell my son, I don’t understand the rules, I don’t know that I can’t make noise in public, I don’t understand that my sister should speak in a low voice when she falls asleep.
has no eye contact, does not look at people, and has a very poor cognition when he was a child. He does not point to things with his index finger (before he went to the institution, he didn't recognize the items in the room, and he was probably less than 2 years old). He also likes to play with things very rigidly, such as staring at the round scooter tires, turning around, hanging the mouse down, and shaking it back and forth, just like swinging the mouse . Their gameplay is very weird, and they can be played for a long time. This is when he was about one year and five months old. Please ignore the floor in the store. The house in Beijing is old and cannot be erased.
If you have children who are surrounded by you who have no response to calling a name, can't speak, have no eye contact, and feel abnormal, go to the hospital for examination as soon as possible! Don’t delay, don’t believe the noble person’s words too late! The noble words of others are based on the premise of everything else. The sooner you intervene, the better! The sooner you intervene, the better!
I don’t know those professional terms, I only know that these children who come into contact with institution will have problems, and every child is different. Severely walking on tiptoe, without words, self-harm.
I have seen a mother who looked at her child helplessly and distressedly slapped herself; I have seen a child who speaks very quickly but answers questions and talks to herself. I have seen a child who feels very low in pain and doesn’t even hum if he falls and he doesn’t even hum. I have also seen a child who has been running wildly and laughing and can't stop. I have seen children who can be so excited that they can't sit still after eating a piece of candy...
does not have so many high functions, high IQ, or genius. Most of the children in the organization are mentally depressed, and it is very rare to be able to get close to normal people's lives. The purpose of our intervention is just to hope that they can get close to normal people's lives. It can only be close.
has no cure, lifelong treatment can only be intervened.
has undergone genetic screening, brain MMA, food intolerance, and overeating, but egg ovulation.
has been tossing for a long time, and it becomes numb, so I have accepted it. That's it!
Thank you again for your support. We will stick to it. If you can’t walk quickly, then climb slowly!
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The son seems to care about it very much, so I named it Afu. Hope it brings blessings and luck! A little black teddy. There was a little white hair on my back, very joyful. I was raising a pet for the first time. I didn’t have time before, but now I’m just doing it for my children!
Just 2 months ago, my brave daughter was bitten 4 or 5 times. She was vaccinated for the first time, and later she was vaccinated for Afu. She is too brave and always makes trouble for the dog. The dog is only 3 months old when it gets home. They are all ignorant children, so let’s hurt each other!
If Afu urinates and defecates everywhere, his son will come to complain to
"Afu pulled it, Afu pulled it"
"Where did you pull it?"
"Take it"...
won't describe the location. After a period of correction and practice, I occasionally say "Afu peeed at the door"
Hehe, that's great.
My 3-year-old daughter would point at the floor, "Afu, why are you peeing here again! Ah? Have you told you how many times?"
My super caring son piled up Afu's food bowl every day, and he was more diligent than me.But Ah Fu was not afraid of him. He chased his son all day long and ran all over the ground. He ran from outside to the bed, and had to lift his feet up. Most of the time he would sit next to Ah Fu and watch him sleep. The dog might think his son was bored and would not tease him. Sometimes he would find a place to sleep by himself after strolling next to his son.
At this moment, the two are pretending to cook for Afu. The son stole his daughter's coins and his daughter was crying... I have to go and see
I hope you all can grow up safely and healthily!
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is updated today because it is very memorable, and it feels like joy is caused by sorrow.
After returning to my hometown, I gathered with my sisters who I haven’t seen for many years. I was very happy every day. Today I rode an electric bike to see a friend and made a happy eyebrows. But the way back was tragic.
The curb teeth were very short and I thought I could ride over, but I fell to the ground with lightning speed. I didn't react at all, and then I fell to the ground. The most incredible thing was that my two front teeth were broken instantly, my teeth were broken, and I broke...
What I wondered was that except for the abrasions on my face, there was almost no harm in other places. I thought I would be bleeding all over my mouth, and I was dizzy again, so I must have slumped on the ground. As a result, I was shocked and calm down. Then I helped the car up, turned on the camera of my phone to check my face, and slightly abraded around my left eye and above my mouth. These two teeth fell out of the mask, and then the two front teeth that I was proud of, one in the same stubble, and the other pointed stubble...
Then I went to the hospital for a video. Fortunately, the root of the teeth was fine. I really didn't expect that I could knock off my front teeth in my lifetime... I don't know how to describe it, but when I came back, I couldn't laugh and cry in front of the mirror.
Next Monday, I will go to check my son. I don’t know how to think I was abused by domestic violence... Haha
2021.9.25 It rained all day in Beijing yesterday. The wet feeling is very uncomfortable. My son was sent to a special education school, the kind that I could stay in. The main thing is the financial ability problem, and I can't afford it. I heard that there is a family in Shunyi. I called and asked about the tuition fee of nearly 7,000 yuan per month. After hearing this, my husband and I were silent.
Today is the fifth day he stayed there. He was sent to him on Monday. In another city, he felt like he was abandoning him. He sat at the desk in the classroom and looked very happy. I asked him if he was happy? He said he was happy! When asked if he wanted to come here to go to school, he said he wanted to! When asked if this place is good, he said, OK.
When I left, I pulled his class teacher and cried so hard. The life teacher said don’t worry, the child can’t stand the grievances when he follows us.
After Mid-Autumn holiday, I went to see him with his dad. I took him out for lunch and had a meal of KFC . I was really happy to see him. When I left, the teacher took him in and was not repulsed. I turned around and waved to see us goodbye. When I got in the car, I cried again.
After a festival, the family of four was the same as us on the way back.
My daughter and grandma are temporarily staying in her hometown for a while and found a kindergarten for her. She was also very happy because her grandma has been with her since childhood, and there is no such scene of crying and being reluctant to leave. I am very sad, very sad, and not used to it. I couldn't sleep all night on the first night after I came back.
is ready to start opening a store. How can I bring my children a better life before there is not enough money...
plan will be stable next year, and I will take my daughter over again, and I don’t want to miss her only childhood.
htmlOn the end of October, you can take your son back.There are no noisy sounds around me, no messy atmosphere of life, and no children. In addition to trying to make myself busy, I will be unaccustomed to it when I calm down, and I am a sentimental person.
Life is like this, just like people on the subway, they always come and go in a hurry, and people who don’t know each other walk in their own lives. Everyone’s life trajectory has nothing to do with, only those trajectories that once intersect tell each other that we have met. And in our lives, we have changed because of such a child, and because of him, we have become stronger. Come on, head to the sun all the way, your heart is free of haze, there will always be hope!
Be a strong man who is not defeated by life~
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Due to the epidemic, my son has been put in school for nearly a month.
I have been in a very bad mood these two days. One is the pressure of opening a store, staying up late, and the other is that I can’t take care of my children. I can’t handle any bricks or the Gu family. Extremely depressed.
The teacher said he might be missing us, and he always said he would come to pick you up in a few days (you and I don’t know). He was having a meal at the time and couldn’t stop his tears in an instant.
Every time I’m not busy, I cry as soon as I see it. Damn the epidemic, when will it end! !
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My heart skipped a beat, and my mind was blank for a few seconds.
The teacher said that last night he was on the edge of the bed. A child fell down and fell on him, then hit him on the edge of the bed, with a piece of skin on the corner of his eyes. When I saw the photo, I burst into tears in an instant. In addition to feeling distressed, I couldn't appear in front of him immediately. The teacher apologized to me and said he didn't pay attention to the child. In fact, the teacher doesn’t want to do this either. Although I feel sorry for it, I didn’t say anything. It’s normal for many children to get bumps and bumps. It’s okay if it’s not particularly serious. But that feeling distressed...
Sometimes I think life is like this? Alas, unhappy.
May our future life be smoother, and may my children be safe and healthy.
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I got sick a few days ago. I had a viral respiratory infection . The teacher called me and said that the high fever was repeated. I bought a ticket and went straight to the school.
Then he stayed with him for 3 days, went to the hospital for examination, and then took a good rest in the hotel.
When I left, I moved my fingers and found that he was about to have a birthday of only 2 days away. However, the first Christmas in my store was so confused that I had to do everything myself. I really couldn't take care of him. The epidemic started again, and I needed nucleic acid and reporting everywhere, so I simply sent him back to school.
When I talked to the teacher, I couldn't control my tears anymore. I cried and said that I was not a qualified mother and was not responsible to the child at all... But I had no choice. I hope the teacher will take care of him more in the past few days. After this period of time, I will take him back...
has been under a lot of pressure recently, and I can't stop crying.
I feel sorry for the child, helpless and sad.
took a taxi from the school gate to the train station and cried all the way.
When waiting for the bus in the waiting room, I kept looking at the ceiling. When I thought that my son's illness had not been completely cured, I was about to leave, and I started to feel uncomfortable again.
I really want to clone the art, I really want to think about it.
Adjust your emotions and accept the baptism of the storm. The sky has fallen and has not compromised yet. We must overcome these. Come on, son, let’s work on,
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We are stranded in the epidemic in Beijing again, and we can’t go back even if there is no epidemic, because of this small shop.
The child was taken to his hometown before the epidemic. This year is the fourth year that he cannot go home. The child is not around, so he is not disappointed.
All kinds of troubles, all kinds of pressures, I wanted to give up before the business days started. It seemed that I felt that my mission was to take care of my children, and I never wanted to leave my children for a moment. I've been sad and in a bad mood.My husband said that after the New Year, the family would be together, and he would be under greater pressure, but he was more manly and took all the pressure himself. He never showed any anxiety in front of me. Instead, I would be so worried that I couldn't sleep.
When my son was videoed, he didn't get in front of his phone. He would come over every time he shouted loudly, and then said, "I don't want to sing!" and left...
My daughter often gave me videos, telling me what happened today, what she ate, and what she played, but if I haven't met during this period, I don't know how much she grew...
I feel sad, begged God of Wealth to open my eyes and let us turn over quickly. The child is here to test us, making money while spending money. I often feel that we owe children because we need someone to make money hard and one person takes care of him and accompany him wholeheartedly.
is a little tired, I was wondering, will I not be able to hold on one day? Will dawn come?
I saw a sentence in the morning saying that everyone chooses their own life in heaven, and choosing this life will definitely have meaning in this life. I don’t know if I was too comfortable in my previous life and could not experience the sadness and suffering of the world, so I came down to experience it. This experience is really sad.
Leave a photo sent to me yesterday by my kid, and I can only hug them through the screen, and there is a new screensaver again.
