The biggest knowledge under the day is human knowledge. Without us as observers, the outside world will lose the meaning of talking about.
" University " begins with the saying that the way of university is to show the bright virtue, to be close to the people, and to stop at the highest good.
Clearly virtue, being close to the people, and ending in the ultimate good are the three programs of the "Greatitude". We can view humanity from these three propositions, and we can start from these three propositions to link , mind learning, and psychology together.
Because mind learning requires one's own actual cultivation, it is applied in psychology. The work starts with a counselor, and then establishes a consulting relationship. Finally, it is better if it can inspire the client to understand the mind learning.
Then let’s first explain the content of clearly virtue, being close to the people, and ending in the ultimate good. These three pillars can be of guidance to the consultant himself, the consulting relationship, and the client himself.
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Gestat Psychology proposes the concept of a mind-to-object field. Each of us is creating a corresponding mind-to-object field. Our hearts have an influence on matter, and we will influence each other. This kind of mind-thinking field is like describing the role of "virtue".
Everyone has a field of mind, the difference is the difference in the size of influence. As virtue becomes more profound, the deeper the understanding of things such people have, the greater the influence, and virtue is also manifested in a state of brightness. Clear virtue is to show one's own virtue and thus influence more people.
For consultants, they must have good morals, be able to consider the welfare of the visitors, and be able to propose solutions to help the visitors. For clients, the counselor should also help clients understand their own mental and physical fields, and help clients have a harmonious psychological and living state through consultation.
Friendly
Friendly, it is necessary to establish good interpersonal relationships. The life of a consultant himself requires good interpersonal relationships. The work of a consultant requires establishing good interpersonal relationships with the client. Through consultation, it is also necessary to enable the client to have the ability to establish good interpersonal relationships.
The common way to get along with people is to treat them with a caring, respect, understanding and sincerity. This attitude is something that everyone likes and can help build good interpersonal relationships.
The implicit premise of being close to the people is that they are both independent individuals and are responsible for their own lives. We can get close to each other, but we don’t destroy each other’s independence. In consultation, the consultant should prepare to end the consultation, that is, to help the client be able to live well alone.
What state can our human nature reach? What is the limit when we get along with people? The Great Learning says that we can reach the level of the highest good, and the ultimate good is perfect.
In human psychology , Maslow has written a book called "High Levels of ". The ancients also pursued the improvement of human nature, and the highest degree was the saint. The method to become a saint is in the classics, such as Mr. Yangming teaches us to eliminate selfish desires and preserve the laws of nature. As our hearts become more pure, our thoughts, words and deeds become more in line with the laws of nature.
From the perspective of mind learning, we can realize that the counselor has selfless delusions? Does the consultant have selfless delusions when dealing with the client? Does the visitor have selfless desires and delusions? If we can reduce these selfish delusions, we will also tend to the state of the highest good.
guides these three programs, consultants and visitors can improve themselves, establish good interpersonal relationships, and achieve a good life state.
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