The famous poet Yu Xiuhua was subjected to domestic violence. There are three points to watch. Yu Xiuhua and her little boyfriend: Yu Xiuhua is a patient with cerebral palsy and a talented poet. Second, Yu Xiuhua’s current husband is 14 years younger than her. Third, Yu Xiuhua fr

The famous poet Yu Xiuhua was subjected to domestic violence. There are three highlights of

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Yu Xiuhua and her little boyfriend

First, Yu Xiuhua is a cerebral palsy patient and a talented poet.

Second, Yu Xiuhua’s current husband is 14 years younger than her.

Third, Yu Xiuhua frequently showed affection some time ago.

Why was the seemingly loving Yu Xiuhua subjected to domestic violence?

We only base on Yu’s psychological analysis.

Yu was born in 1976. In the rural environment of that era, women with cerebral palsy were treated with pity and contempt. Later, the marriage partner arranged for her by her family was a homeless man who came to marry her, and he did not like her and did not care about her feelings.

Therefore, Yu’s psychology must be based on inferiority. Her heart longs to be loved and cared for, even more so than ordinary people.

At the same time, her growth was accompanied by ridicule and sarcasm, which also built a tough wall of resistance in her heart.

When Yu Xiuhua relied on her talents to become famous step by step, she was able to get rid of this patchwork marriage.

Yu Xiuhua published a collection of poems and became the vice chairman of the Writers Association. Her life has undergone earth-shaking changes. Her talent gave her confidence, and she went from the lowest point to the highest point mentally.

This rapid rise in life stages from low to high can easily cause psychological instability.

Of course, she also needs a new life, new feelings, and new waves.

is just too eager.

When her boyfriend who was 14 years younger than her appeared, Yu Xiuhua threw herself into the embrace of love without hesitation. No matter whether this embrace is long-lasting or short-lived, as long as it is warm at the time.

Judging from the incident she described, her boyfriend did not love her at all. Because love is based on respect, aims at mutual growth, and is based on mutual attraction.

During the quarrel, the little man slapped Yu Xiuhua more than a hundred times. Can you tell this person loves you?

When he was in a hurry, the little man pinched Yu Xiuhua's neck and almost suffocated. Can you say that this man has higher moral standards than the previous tramp?

Poets often need passionate creation.

However, life does not require a passionate marriage.

What is even more disturbing is that from the deep valley to the peak, the originally traumatized heart will not be able to find the way down the mountain.