Suicide has become the second main cause of death of teenagers around the world. Recently, campus suicides have been constantly occurring. Is it because teenagers have lost interest in life or their ideals in life? Perhaps they have lost resistance to pressure and taken care of life, and perhaps because the extreme anger and impulse in their ignorance have pushed them to the wrong choice.
The development of technology in this era is changing with each passing day. The fast-paced life and mobile phone communication have brought us closer to each other, and at the same time, it has reduced our opportunities for face-to-face communication. The communication between parents and children has become expressionless, physical, and physical communication. The expressions and movements between people are isolated from the mobile phone.
First of all, why teenagers commit suicide?
First, survival factors, today's social life is abundant and living standards are improved. As long as the behavior is good, family hunger, food and clothing are no longer a problem of life. Modern lifestyle, consumption concepts, and worldview, values are all changing, and the values of teenagers are also changing in this and that, and they do not have a deep understanding of the concepts and understanding of life and death. Therefore, after the concepts of survival, living, living and three parties are confused, the desire and care for life are weakened.
Second, campus factors, campus is where young people initially enter society, understand society, feel differences in social status, life differences, family thoughts, differences in rich and poor, differences in human feelings, differences in grades, and learning ability. Differentiated understanding, learning ability, financial resources, material resources, and grades have caused differences in learning and life between students. Exam results, ranking, ranking order, and the degree of attention of teachers all lead to differentiation. This is understandable. "Honeys are all about parents in the world", students with good grades will naturally attract people to like, and teachers must have a sense of accomplishment and pride when seeing students' excellent grades.
has poor grades and is naughty. The teachers are also angry and loving. Most of the troubled students have strong communication and thinking skills. They are optimistic and open-minded. They are a little lazy, a little casual, a little narcissistic, and some naughty. Although the teacher is so angry that he can't make a strong sense of communication and thinking, they can still leave deep memories.
The most easily overlooked are students with intermediate price styles. The grades are neither good nor bad, they do not make mistakes, and are in good manners. Often, problems will arise in this situation, just like boiling a frog in cold water, just like the four seasons on campus have nothing to do with him. They do not have high-profile grades and the courage to make trouble. At the same time, they reassure the teacher and are obedient children. But behind neglect is the explosion, which is what we often call a marginal personality. Good grades and bad grades will be psychologically impacted. Life is smooth and unhappy. Family matters are never exposed. When encountering conflicts, choose to compromise, and choose to get rid of it over time.
Third, psychological demand, nowadays, internet celebrities create wealth, traffic create wealth, hot topics create wealth, topics create wealth, social death costs very low, intentional or unintentional dissemination of heat attention has caused a large amount of information to be demonized, extreme, exaggerated, expanded, distorted, and distorted. A common message is constantly adding new materials to the spread of hot topics first, such as maliciousness, kindness, sympathy, anger, boredom, lying, grief and anger, pain, happiness, sadness, deception, sunshine, etc., after adding materials to the same event, the original objective and reality become diverse and complex.
A young man, after being bombarded by the information of various emotional marketing products for a long time, intensive, covering, deep and large-scale, concentratedly, concentrated, unjudged teenagers who have no life experience choose to follow the herd or personality. The herd youth can find recognition in the thinking of the general youth, and the individual young people can gain attention in the eyes of the general youth, money, gender, life, fun, celebrities, and clothing, every bit of the same and difference, meeting the spiritual needs and respect of young people with different life, family, and economic conditions.
Fourth, no one understands calling for help. People’s fear of the unknown when facing death is unimaginable. People need great courage to make choices when facing death. Adults will cry, regret, twitch, tremble, and tremble when facing death. You can imagine how many thoughts adolescents have experienced before facing death. Many news reveals details of teenagers' suicide. Some were scolded by teachers and parents before committing suicide, some were excluded by friends, some were trampled on by dignity, some were long-term depression, some were contradictory impulses, and more were overthinking and fearing the consequences of conflicts. They were afraid of the consequences after conflicts in life, not fearing the conflict itself.
They will post on WeChat Moments, write online articles, talk to friends, show abnormal behavior, cry loudly, be quiet and indifferent, and be angry and impulsive. However, as adults, we turn a blind eye to the call for help from this body language. It’s not that we don’t see it, but that we think that the strange behavior of young people in the era of personality is normal, and they will forget it after a few days of heartlessness. Unfortunately, many people are wrong. Today’s society is not like that, because of the development of science and information, they have a highly informatized, knowledgeable personality and searchable knowledge system. Their changeable performance is just another form of personality and maturity, but abnormality and change are two completely different forms. We ignore respect for their personality.
The young men in their youth have great courage to choose a dead end. They are reluctant to leave this world and want to get help and get a glimmer of hope. However, the call for help from their body, expressions, movements, and language is blocked by modern communication. It is not that they cannot experience setbacks, but that we do not hear the hysterical cry for help when they need help.
