She was born in the countryside. Because of her intelligence and diligence, she successfully got into a good university and successfully joined a large company in Beijing after graduation.
After working for two years, her condition seemed to be smooth sailing, but she was getting worse and worse. While working during the day, she tries to maintain her normal appearance. After get off work, she returned to the rental house. She sat motionlessly on the sofa, without changing shoes, removing makeup, eating, or sleeping. She sat for half a day, and often burst into tears without realizing it.
Every morning, she has to struggle for a long time before she can get up to work. But her heart was full of resistance to the outside world. She was unwilling to participate in any social interaction, and she was forced to communicate with her leaders and customers. She always asks her out for a good colleague, and she always finds various reasons to refuse, and then returns to the rental house alone to continue to empty herself.
She knew she was sick. Because of the epidemic, she could not go home during the Spring Festival, so she missed her parents very much. Just after the Spring Festival, the partner who had been dating for two years suddenly broke up with her, and she was unable to save her. Recently, the company has carried out a new round of layoffs. Although she is lucky enough to stay, she has to face endless work every day. She is under great pressure and feels panicked.
In a video call with her parents, she had always reported good news but not bad news and finally couldn't hold back. She cried bitterly to her parents and said to her parents incoherently, "I'm sorry." She knew that her parents raised her and paid a lot for her to study, but she lived like this and felt very guilty.
The day after the video call, she received a call from her mother, who told her daughter that she had arrived downstairs of her daughter's company. Shocked, she walked off the stairs and saw her mother standing in the wind, with two bulging woven bags standing next to her. She hurriedly asked for leave and took her mother back to the rental house.
The mother and daughter were chatting while packing up. She was very worried after hanging up the phone yesterday, so she quickly packed up and came to Beijing. My mother, who had never been to Beijing, asked all the way after getting off the high-speed rail and successfully found her daughter's company. My mother's woven bag contains many treasures, including local specialties from her hometown, rapeseed , and flower seedlings.
The arrival of my mother made her daughter's rental house suddenly become vibrant. My mother said that she was going to stay in Beijing for a while this time. My daughter was very happy because her mother came to Beijing before and couldn't live for a few days. She always felt that her hometown was good.
She told her mother about her current situation. Because she was afraid that her mother would worry, she didn't say too much, saying that she might be mildly depressed. After hearing this, my mother told her: "A person has grown up and down for the rest of his life. It is normal for him to go up and down. You are indeed facing difficulties now, but it will get better soon."
My mother made her a table of steaming hot hometown dishes for her. She suddenly had a big appetite. After eating and drinking, she slept until dawn. My mother is lively and idle. The next day she found a job cooking for people in the community, which received strong praise from her employer. When she told her daughter the news, her daughter was surprised and happy.
A few months later, after someone introduced me, my mother found another part-time job in a supermarket promotion. My mother worked well in both jobs, which not only made her earned money, but also made her life particularly fulfilling. In addition to work, my mother would dance square dance in the community every day after get off work, never stopping. And under her influence and persistence, her daughter also went out to run every day, regardless of wind or rain.
Mom lived in Beijing for two years, and her daughter was cured unknowingly. Although the work pressure is still very high and troublesome things continue to occur, she is able to deal with everything calmly. She was full of gratitude and admiration for her mother. Although her mother was just a countryman with little education, she taught her the simplest wisdom of life.
She concluded: Positive mothers bring their children love and hope for life. As long as the child is full of confidence and strength, he can bravely face the difficulties and challenges in life and gain the joy and happiness of life.
May every mother become a positive energy mother, and may every child's pain be healed .
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