I didn't think much about it. I usually just cook the meal and went together. Before the food was served, a colleague and friend showed him a piece of news, pointed to someone's name and said, "This is my aunt."

Today, Saturday, at the company, my colleague said that his friend was nearby and asked to have dinner together.

didn't think much about it. Usually, I just had to eat and just went together.

hasn't served, but my colleague and friend showed him a news, pointed to someone's name and said, "This is my aunt."

didn't take it seriously at first, but the colleague said, "Damn, it's awesome, XXX!"

My mind was "buzzing" and I fell forward and took a look. Apart from saying "awesome", I couldn't think of how to describe my mood at that time.

colleague said, "This is someone in the same circle as XXX!" colleague said, "You are stupid. You have this relationship. You are still working in a small state-owned enterprise. Hurry up and take the civil service exam!" colleagues and friends said, "I am not interested in civil servants, and it's okay now." colleagues and friends said, "What's the right thing? At least you can be a vice president at the headquarters of your large group! I have known you for so long but I don't know that you have this relationship. You are really a waste of resources!"

colleagues and friends smiled and didn't say anything.

Maybe awesome people are playing with awesome people.

Later, after dinner, I learned that my colleague is also the hidden Wang Bang of : my colleague's relative A is the president of a certain bank, and my relative B is the sales director of a foreign company in China, and he is also from the top 10 colleges in China. My colleague said that I went to have a meal recently and asked a Japanese chef to deal with a pufferfish for more than a dozen slices of meat. I think I'm redundant when I listen to their chatting like this. It turns out that I'm here to gain insight.

has a very impressive documentary called "Seven Years of Life", which was filmed in the UK. continues to shoot 14 7-year-old children from different classes to watch the growth and changes of these people. As time goes by, most people are middle-class and become middle-class, and the people who are dealing with each other around them are middle-class, poor or poor, living according to the lifestyle of the poor. Of course, there is an exception, one person who eventually achieved a class leap from the poor to the middle class.

In life, each of us hopes to be the exception, but how many people eventually live as the established one.

A friend of my colleague said, I know such an aunt, but my aunt may not know me. We are too far apart. is different every day, we are just a world where we are completely disjointed. I just need to live my life safely.

Actually, like my colleagues, I felt so sorry and wasted the moment I learned it. But after thinking about it, I felt relieved again.

I had a college classmate who had just graduated. We all ran job fairs like headless flies and went to interviews. We were worried about not having an offer. But he was like a ok person. On the eve of graduation, he told me that my dad told him that a distant uncle was a leader in the province and he had asked him about his relationship, but he had never heard of him.

The ancients said that it seems that it is true that poor people are in the downtown area and wealthy people are in the deep mountains. Finally, he also told me that I knew there was such an uncle, but my uncle didn't know that there was such a nephew like me.

According to the Six-person Law , any person on the earth needs to get in touch with any other person, and only no more than five middlemen can achieve it. So it may be because of this reason that we have so many children from other people’s families since we were young, but we never know who the children of other people are?

It doesn’t matter who you know who others are. What matters is whether others know who you are. If you are not on the same order of magnitude, you are likely to be able to survive and talk.

In fact, it is really important for someone to help you in the workplace, or in anything you do, and it can help you avoid many detours.

I don’t know if Liu Yuanyuan is a noble son now, but Peking University ’s halo + an article “It’s hard to get a noble son from a poor family” really made her stand out, and it was once very popular. For ordinary people, the college entrance examination is the most important shortcut for many poor families to change their destiny, and there is even no one.

My college entrance examination choice is CUHK. In the eyes of Guangdong people, there are only three good universities in the country, Peking University, Tsinghua University and CUHK. As a result, I have a bigger mind and bigger heart, so I can only take the private colleges of CUHK. At that time, I wanted to go to college and then go to undergraduate degree in the future, but I just wanted to quickly get rid of my parents' chant. Due to the tuition fee of tens of thousands of yuan a year, my parents also want me to go to college.

is about to fill out the application form, and a distant mother-in-law heard about this from somewhere. She scolded my dad in the face and said that she was studying for a college degree, and she paid for the tuition fee. At that time, I didn't realize the insightful opinions of this old lady in her seventies and long-term vision. I just heard that she had been the director of the women in our small county town, which is considered to be the fourth, fifth, sixth, or seventh and eighth tiers. Before going to college, I called me over and talked about this and that. I gave me five hundred yuan when I was about to finish my studies and living expenses, and said that I could ask her for it.

I will graduate ten years next year. Although I did not soar like what she expected, I had been working as an HR for almost ten years, and I was extremely grateful and sighed that she came forward to stop my college entrance examination.

After all, there are still many differences between college and undergraduate, undergraduate and key undergraduate. We are born as a starting line, and university is the new starting line. If we can’t choose our own origins, the college entrance examination is another starting line we can choose. Missing it does not mean you can’t overtake, but it takes a thousand times more time and energy.

We who have just graduated have actually been rejected and disgusted by "relationships" and "connections". We feel that we are awesome and our eyes are full of arrogance. Now that I have worked alone for so long, I am just like watching the Rockets who are related to promotion and salary increase in the workplace, and I work diligently, just like an old ox who has to wait for a bargain.

will think that if you have relationships, resources and background, you can easily do it yourself.

So it becomes, you know who you are, who is a relative of who you are, how did you do when you were a child, but I’m sorry, people don’t know you at all.

Entertainment of adults is sometimes very realistic.

You have resources, or you have money, I can make money from you when I interact with you, you can always see the other person's smiling face, greetings are more diligent than anyone else during the holidays, and I also give you this and that from time to time, although you may not be able to see it.

You want to meet people who are higher than you, and hope to gain benefits from people who are higher than you, but you ignore what you can exchange for. resources are valuable. Is it really worth doing this by relying solely on a distant relationship? Or is it because you are worthy of the other party’s long-term investment?

It may be because of this that everyone sighed that the feelings of the student days were very pure. You will not dislike you for your poor and rich because of your height, fat and thinness, nor will you ignore you just because you can't afford three dishes. Maybe your classmates will just cook five dishes and have dinner with you.

may also be because of this, so everyone says that it is difficult to find a confidant and a soulmate. After all, people who think they are not talented can't even hold a train, and how many people are willing to pick you out of this vast crowd and be sincere to you.

This meal was really mixed. I sighed that although my colleagues and friends are not good-looking, they still have such a relationship. I also envy my colleagues and friends for their natural and free and easy despicable behavior.

In fact, we all live a simple and ordinary life. I think I have to see if there are also great relationships, whether it is someone who is someone, or who is a big shot, so that I can play a big shot one day.

Before I finished writing this article tonight, I accidentally saw a cartoon by Shudangou. The general idea was: We are busy with work and have to complete the tasks of our boss; we are also busy during rest and have to complete the tasks assigned by our life. Although I was busy all day long and exhausted, even so, as soon as I thought that our lives were the only inspirational and passionate drama starring ourselves, the blood in my bones suddenly boiled!

seems to be true. Let’s encourage you!

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