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every man and woman who chooses marriage hopes that they can join hands with each other and grow old. But the world is unpredictable. There are many people who are single due to various reasons. They have to endure the loneliness and loneliness of life.
However, in recent years, more and more middle-aged and elderly people at have chosen to live a life with partners.
There are such old people around me.
My husband’s big cousin
talks about the big cousin, she can’t help but feel a little uncomfortable, she is a life-stricken person. When I was young, I couldn't have children, and later adopted their daughter. What's worthwhile is that after adopting the daughter, she also became pregnant again, a boy. The two children were one year apart and grew up together. Because it is old and good, it is inevitable to spoil the children, so the two children will be satisfied no matter what they ask.
saw the age of marriage, and a pair of sons and daughters got married. The son of lived not far away after he got married. With her persuasion, his daughter also married a boy in the same village. The couple of were all drenched because of their children. Savings for a lifetime.
children should be relieved to have a family, but none of us knows which one will come first tomorrow or accident. That year, ’s wife was diagnosed with terminal cancer. His son died in an accident at work. At that time, his daughter-in-law was pregnant. The following year, my girl-girl worked outside and didn't look back. It wasn't until her mother-in-law came to her home that the big cousin knew that the girl was running away, and on the phone she was so angry that she wanted to sever relationship with her girl. The daughter-in-law of
returned to her family after the death of her son. At the request of her elder cousin, gave birth to the child and remarried. Faced with the fragmented family aunt and grandma at a loss, she washed her face with tears every day, almost crying and blinding her eyes. However, she was still holding her grandson who was waiting to be nurtured in her arms, and she devoted all her feelings to him.
To be honest, her life was really difficult at the time. She had to take her children to do farm work every day, she had to consider the issue of remarrying . Later, she met Uncle Cui, who she now lives with. Uncle Cui divorced his wife in the early years. He has been single for so many years. After he heard about the big cousin, he came to the door. After
, they have been living together. Uncle Cui helped the eldest cousin do the farm work in the field, and the eldest cousin took the children to wash and cook at home, and the life was pretty good. Three years have passed since
, and the girl from came back with her husband and children. Under the persuasion of Uncle Cui, she accepted her daughter , because she understood that the twisted melon was not sweet, and the reason why her daughter left in that way was a helpless choice.
Seeing that her daughter is living happily now, she is also satisfied. Although the daughter is now married far away, even if there are thousands of reluctances, she will not interfere too much.
Seeing that the big cousin is doing well now, everyone can't help but breathe a sigh of relief. They persuade Aunt Yang who is also single, especially Aunt Yang's son and daughter.
Aunt Yang is 62 years old this year
Unlike her big cousin, she is a high school teacher and has been retired for 7 years. Z20z has a fixed pension every month and she also has her own house.
Her wife and son passed away due to illness a few years ago. She had just retired at that time, and thought that after waiting for two years, her husband also retired. The two can travel together, travel, climb mountains and so on. Who would have thought that the reality is so cruel that the illness took away his wife early. After the death of her husband of
, the son of picked her up. Z21z lived with her son. At first, the child was still young. She was able to help with cooking and taking care of the children. After the child went to kindergarten, she had nothing to do every day. Home is not at ease, so I have to go back to my own home.
My son can't help her, he can only let her come back, but the children don't worry about herOne person, , always takes time to come back to see her every other time. She understands the children's filial piety, but looking at the tiredness of the children, she can't help feeling a little pain, so she tells the children not to toss back and forth, and she can take care of herself.
son and daughter said: Since you don't want us to run back and forth, you can find a wife, can also take care of each other, she didn't even want to refuse, because he felt unreliable.
Now, seeing that my cousin is having a pretty good life, everyone has mentioned asking her to find a wife, especially her son and daughter.
she thought about it again and again, and said this sentence: It is okay to find a wife, but if you want to live with me, a man must meet these three conditions, otherwise the talk will be avoided.
Everyone asked her what three conditions? She slowly said:
[1] The other party’s economy is better than me.
It’s good for me to live by myself. Since you asked me to find someone with better conditions, at least not worse than me, I would “partner with him”. "Living" do not have too many property problems.
[2] The other party must be a diligent, clean, and healthy old man
Looking for a spouse is not to be a nanny. If you make a sloppy or sick old man, it's not that you find yourself unhappy.
[3] If the other party is an honest person
I am a person who likes to stay in peace, I like to read books and raise flowers and plants, even if it is not like-minded, but not too much, if he goes out to drink and get drunk every day. I can't stand it.
After listening to her request, everyone was silent for a moment, but after slowing down, there was nothing wrong with it. The big cousin
asked Uncle Cui later, why were you willing to accept me? After all, my life was terrible. Uncle Cui said: After listening to what you have experienced and your attitude towards things, I think you should be a very good person, so I think about it and try again. If it doesn't work, I just separate. It seems that I have a good vision of people.
It turns out that Uncle Cui chose the big cousin not because of impulse and pity, but the big cousin just fits his rules.
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