Foreword
With the continuous economic development, more and more people choose to go out to work. Young people often think about how to break into a world, while middle-aged men may be thinking about their wives and children in their hearts. They should solve food and clothing first, and then talk about other lofty ideals.
Young migrant workers always lose part of their family responsibilities and can be indulged and free. But middle-aged men can't, and often need to stick to responsibility and loyalty in their hearts. But there are always people who don't want to betray their family, but want to solve their physical and psychological needs.
So, deliberately by some people, a special group of "temporary couples" was created. It seems happy and loving outside, but they part ways during the New Year. So, how can such "temporary couples" who wander on the edge of ethics and law stay with their home spouse?
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always change places and start over with that person. I’m afraid that his wife will find that
is a skilled cement worker. When applying for jobs at the construction site, there will always be a special request, that is, women around him should follow along. Work on a construction site, or forget it. The foreman
thought it was the husband and wife who came out to work, and was too embarrassed to refuse and separate others, so he agreed to this request. The couple live the small days of sunrise and sunset, which arouses the envy of others, at least there is a partner by their side.
It's just that the two of them give people a strange feeling. They seem to be happy and affectionate but rarely talk, very much like strangers. Later, there was one time when Lao Li and his coworkers took the initiative to chat about him and this woman.
It turned out that the two were just a "temporary couple" relationship. The woman's husband was injured, so he had to go out to work if he couldn't work, and he didn't dare to speak up if others were bullied. Later, Lao Li couldn't bear it and took the initiative to help, and the two people gradually got acquainted.
Lao Li learned from some workers that some people on the construction site, regardless of whether they were married or unmarried, would take each other's money and find a partner to form a "temporary couple" and make ends meet.
When Lao Li talked to a woman about this idea, she was silent for a long time before she agreed. After all, one is a man who has been away for a long time, and the other is a woman who needs to rely on. After
, the two lived like a couple. Lao Li understands that each other has a family and it is easy to be discovered by each other. feels ashamed, he always changes places after doing it for a while, and doesn't force women to change places together. But she insisted on following him, and the relationship between the two people continued to this day.
Lao Li is contradictory and reluctant, but he is afraid that his wife will discover that it will be a broken family situation. Therefore, every Chinese New Year, he always gives a woman a sum of money as compensation. After I go back, I always treat my wife twice as good. In the end, conflicts and reluctance to deal with between the two women, fearing that one day things will be revealed. The wife of
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knows that she does not speak by default. The man has changed since the new
. He is a young man who has been out to work for a long time. At the beginning, he always asked his wife to come out together. The wife understood the husband's needs, but the children and the elderly could not get away.
Later, Da Zhuang heard about "temporary couples", but he didn't care. Z5z felt that the couple always need loyalty. However, it's not that he didn't want to, other people wouldn't do it.
is big and strong, as the name suggests, giving people a very strong and real feeling. There are also some women on the construction site. Seeing their sturdy bodies, they can’t help but approach them, intentionally or unconsciously wanting to form "temporary couples." Da Zhuang would refuse at the beginning, but it was a pity that he had a strong psychological and physical needs, and he deliberately approached other women. In the end, he also joined them.
At the beginning, I was not used to it. But the woman still asks Han Wennuan and takes good care of him from time to time, so he gradually gets used to the days when a woman is around him.
Later, Da Zhuang also let go of his heart, as long as his wife doesn't know it. However, a woman's sixth sense is very accurate, and Da Zhuang has no need to express that aspect on the phone, and the wife gradually understands that the husband may have a woman or a solution outside.
His wife was angry at first, and no one would tolerate such betrayal. But in a blink of an eye, she thought of her husband sending money home on time every month, and the phone call has never been less.Can it be like this if there is a demand in that area.
The wife thinks that she is qualified as a mother and daughter-in-law, but she ignores her husband as a wife, and finally she chooses to default. Once during a phone conversation, my wife couldn't help but say: "Don't take it home, you can't ruin our happy marriage." Z6z Dazhuang understood it all at once and heard the compromise of his wife.
In the end, Da Zhuang chose to break the "temporary husband and wife" relationship for the family, so he wanted to live with his wife and be a good husband and father.
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were discovered by his wife, lost a sum of money, and finally divorced
Mr. Li was not as lucky as the previous two people. He worked for many years, but eventually he could not stand the temptation to form such a "temporary couple". In order to prevent his wife from knowing,
ran a long way every time he called, and his monthly salary was handed in on time. Even if his wife wanted to visit him, she would ask the woman to leave and clean the dormitory. The wife of didn't seem to know, and always said nothing.
Actually, Mr. Li is very contradictory. He understands his wife's hard work, but so what? When is away from home, it is normal to have needs and company. His wife cannot be by his side at all times. As a man, he thinks these are not excessive.
Sometimes, Mr. Li would also joking with the woman who is a temporary couple, otherwise we would really get married. But the woman was silent and did not speak, and he could see that others were just making do with it. After all, each other has a family, so it can only be the kind that doesn't touch real feelings.
However, the paper package couldn't stop the fire. His wife knew it, and suddenly came to visit Mr. Li, which made him and the woman panic. She didn't cry and insisted on getting a divorce, unable to accept it. Mr. Li, who was in the wrong, gave all kinds of guarantees under the ten thousand confession, but his wife asked to break the relationship .
Mr. Li also chose to stop such "temporary couples", but the woman refused to leave, making him feel very disadvantaged. In the end, Mr. Li lost a sum of money. The wife still couldn't forgive her, and she divorced him and lost her personal wealth.
Conclusion: How does
treat "temporary couples"?
I don’t know when this kind of "temporary couple" suddenly appeared. is built on the basis of each taking what they need, not disturbing each other's family. But this kind of existence is an impact on marriage loyalty.
Even if there are thousands of reasons or needs, this approach is still incomprehensible and tolerant. Especially women value marriage and work hard at home. But men have this kind of relationship outside, and no one can accept it.
From another angle, if a woman has this kind of "temporary couple" relationship that wanders away from the edge of ethics and law, can men accept it? Therefore, if you compare your heart to your heart, you should respect and be loyal to each other. This is also the greatest responsibility to each other and yourself.
Zang Hongfei said in "The Story of Wonderful Flowers": "We need marriage. We hope that there will be someone who can accompany us against the world."
shows that the original purpose of marriage is to accompany us through the storm, rather than blindly pursuing unilateral needs. The formation of this kind of "temporary husband and wife" relationship is still not understood and tolerated by others. It is also an impact on the margins of ethics and law, but it makes people have to pay attention to it. The problem of
is just that it varies from person to person, and each has its own reasons. But once a betrayal is made, it is difficult to turn back. The formation of each marriage is not easy, and it is easy and cherished.
Marriage always requires loyalty to defend, and happiness also requires a sympathetic relationship to exist forever.
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