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What is the money? Money is a social product, an equivalent exchange item created by people for circulation, exchange and embodying the scale of value.
talk about money hurts feelings, talk about feelings hurts money , but in this materialistic and indifferent society, it is really untenable without talking about money. For example, do you need to talk about money when you get married? The answer is yes, all kinds of gifts and garages are all related to material things.
Although many men don’t want to spend money to marry a wife, but they want to find a woman who doesn’t need money, is willing to accompany you, and marries naked, it’s really not that easy. Even if there is, the woman will carefully consider what she wants you. ? Is it a good character or a potential stock?
Whether you are a good character or a potential stock, analyze it from the perspective of people's "avoidance of interests": these are all elements of gambling. Will good character be good for a lifetime? Just like a bad person must be a bad person from birth? People will change, and no one can guarantee what kind of person you will be in the future. What if you are pretending to be deep in your city?
Furthermore, you are a potential stock, this thing is even more invisible and intangible. In reality, there are many couples. They all fly separately if there is no money, and no one will delay finding a better one.
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Xiaoyun married a husband who had no money. When he got married, his husband had no money, no house, no car. He loves to brag and talk big, but his character is not good. Bad, he looks handsome, Xiaoyun took a fancy to his handsomeness and character, and married him.
thinks that there is no money, as long as you work hard. No one is born into a rich family. They all work hard with their own hands. Therefore, when getting married, Xiaoyun really helps her husband a lot, every time she goes to Xiaoyun’s house. , The money for buying things was transferred to him by Xiaoyun, and Xiaoyun bought the ring himself, and then said he bought it.
also has a bride price. Knowing that his family has no money and he has no savings, he said that the bride price of only 60,000 yuan, 6 million yuan, is really not too much at the moment, and it cannot be because of the reason "your family is poor". , I can't tell it!
He is also very interesting. He started borrowing money when he got home. Xiaoyun looked at it and was really helpless. The money you borrowed will get married and become a family in the future. You have to pay it back together with you. So, Xiaoyun, behind his parents, privately gave him the 100,000 he saved from work these years.
He didn't want to ask for it at first. Later, he said that he borrowed the money from Xiaoyun. After getting married, he didn't need any salary, and he paid it all in within 5 years. In short, Xiaoyun married her. After the whole process was calculated, Xiaoyun felt that he was not marrying him, but instead paid for himself and asked him to marry him.
just helped him. The mother-in-law still felt that she was unkind and stingy, and that the two of them had a hard time after marriage. Her family didn’t help much anymore, and Xiaoyun didn’t want her parents to worry about her. Always report good news but not bad news.
The mother-in-law has been urging the two to have a child after marriage, but Xiaoyun really doesn’t want to have a child so early, and plans to be two years later, because having a child will really make her marriage worse and make it harder to leave. , Xiaoyun herself also regrets why she was dizzy and marrying such a family.
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Through Xiaoyun’s marriage, it is not difficult for us to understand that if you have no money to enter the marriage, you are doomed to be difficult. After marriage, various mortgages, car loans, oil, salt and vinegar tea, water and electricity, the cost of raising children, and courtesy The communication costs and so on, will overwhelm you.
Don’t think getting married is such a simple thing. Even if two people are willing to get married, running a marriage is not as simple as you think. Besides, it’s hard to get married now and get divorced.
Beginning next year, if a couple wants to divorce, they must have a one-month cooling-off period. During this one-month cooling-off period, if either party repents, the time will be recalculated. Various delays will cause you a special headache.
Actually put it plainly, In a moneyless marriage, couples are more likely to breed various conflicts , for example, if you buy a piece of clothing, the price is expensive, the other party may get angry at you, saying that you will not live at home. What conditions do you want to buy such expensive clothes?
In addition, couples who have no money are like looking at each other’s shortcomings with a magnifying glass.The shortcomings are that more and more, getting bigger and bigger, and in the end it is unable to accept, tolerate, quarrels, cold wars, and serious domestic violence will occur.
In short, marriage is very realistic. When it comes to money, there will always be unavoidable problems. The two people are also in crisis all the time, and the couple who can live on will cling to their teeth.
really can't endure this bitterness, divorce has become the final relief. For couples, getting married is to end their old age with each other, but choosing to get off halfway is a kind of regret and sorrow.
Hello, stranger, I’m Canliu, I’m self-sufficient and self-sufficient here, and write some trivial emotions into words. There are things that have happened to you, and things that have never happened. We are all alone, both in the beginning and ending. I am lonely, so happy to meet you. Seeking attention!
